Busy Lives and Restless Souls: How Prayer Can Help You Find the Missing Peace in Your Life

Busy Lives and Restless Souls: How Prayer Can Help You Find the Missing Peace in Your Life


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Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780829444957
Publisher: Loyola Press
Publication date: 03/01/2017
Pages: 152
Sales rank: 195,382
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x (d)

About the Author

BECKY ELDREDGE is an Ignatian-trained spiritual director, retreat facilitator, and writer who helps others create space to connect faith and everyday life. She lives in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, with her husband and three children.  

Table of Contents

Foreword ix

Introduction xiii

1 Acknowledging the Restlessness 1

2 Creating Space 9

3 Beginning of a New Identity 25

4 Living Awake 39

5 Awakening to God's Love 51

6 Re-situate Your Life 63

7 Prayer within the Reality of Life 77

8 Through Tough Spots 93

9 Sent Forth 103

10 Embracing the Railways 119

Acknowledgments 127

About the Author 131

What People are Saying About This

Missy DeVillier

Becky’s book gave me permission to forgive myself for my unbelief and encouraged me to begin my relationship with God anew. Busy Lives and Restless Souls also provided me with practical tools to use during my carved out prayer time.

Andy Otto

Busy and restless easily describes a typical week for me. As a new father of an infant and a full time high school teacher, I'm quite aware of the decline in my prayer life. The days of hour-long prayer periods carved out in the Jesuit novitiate schedule are long gone. The free evenings of bachelor life are past. And the moments my wife and I can go into separate rooms for our own prayer are hard to come by with a new baby. This is why I needed to read Becky Eldredge's new book, Busy Lives & Restless Souls. Becky is a friend and Ignatian spiritual director. She's far ahead of me in the parenting journey with three children, which is why I value the experiences and stories she shares in her writing. Becky has struggled with the busyness and restless feeling life brings us all—whether or not we are parents. If there's something that's given me the spark to reinvigorate my prayer life—to be a "busy" pray-er—it's Becky's book.
Like the unfolding of one's spiritual life, her book unfolds naturally, as one acknowledges their restlessness, moves into a deeper identity of Christian life, awakens to God's love, and amid struggles and joys, discovers the life-changing power of prayer. In fact, throughout the book Becky is very clear that if one does not want to change then one should not pray. Prayer changes your life. It's risky. She writes:
There are consequences to creating space for prayer in your life. If you are looking to keep your life the way it is, then, please, don't pray. If you want to stay the person you currently are, then I suggest not making time for prayer in your daily life. Because here's the reality: If you intentionally show up every day in prayer to be with God, your life is going to change. And guess what else? You are going to change!
Becky took that risk on a busy-person's retreat in college where she discovered the life-changing gift of praying with Scripture. From that moment on Becky realized that she could find God in the "thin spaces"—that she could pray and encounter God while changing diapers or cooking dinner. Within all of us, she says, is an "interior chapel" where we have access to God. And that encounter with God comes in many forms. Becky uses the stories from her daily life to bring to life various prayer methods. For her, the Examen is central to her spiritual life. She explains how the Examen has helped her to find God in all things, how it helped her become aware of her need for God's mercy, and how it helps us in discernment. We must bring to God in prayer all the parts of us, even the broken parts.
Busy Lives & Restless Souls truly reveals in one person's story the joy of the faith and how prayer enflames it. Becky's background in spiritual direction and giving retreats helps her know the spiritual facets and nuances of different people. She speaks words that are bound to resonate with all of us, opening up the reader to a deeper self-awareness. Each chapter contains practical steps one can take to pray and ends with some relevant reflection questions. This book isn't meant to be rushed through, but meditated on and applied to your life. It's a call for busy people everywhere to find rest in God through prayer. I always tell my students that prayer should be easy, because God is never far. Prayer can be a blessed moment of awareness or gratitude or a word of praise. Becky understands this. And this is the message of her book.

Stephanie Clouatre Davis

Writing for busy women by a busy woman, Becky Eldredge cracks a window into our otherwise overstimulated lives and restless souls allowing winds of practical Ignatian spirituality to breathe into our modern, lived society. This book speaks not just to women (with children) but all modern people who are looking to ground themselves in prayer while living a fully engaged life.

Bookwifery, Inc. - Christianne Squires

The thing I love most about Becky’s book is that it’s real talk for real people, written by someone who lives it. Becky is in the trenches with the rest of us, yet she offers us hope and real ways to pray and find God in the midst of it. She helps us believe nothing is too mundane for God. All of it matters. This book helps us better live that truth.

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