Table of Contents
Preface ix
Introduction 1
Chapter 1 Empowerment from the Inside Out 9
Part I Making Changes from the Inside Out
Chapter 2 Why It Is So Difficult For Women to Say No 33
Chapter 3 Knowledge Is Power 48
Chapter 4 Facing the Truth about Child Sexual Abuse 70
Chapter 5 Shame-The Most Damaging Effect of Sexual Violations 81
Part II Out with the Old, In With the New
Chapter 6 Compassion for Your Suffering 101
Chapter 7 Connecting with and Releasing Your Anger 121
Chapter 8 Body-Esteem - A New Way of Viewing Your Body and Your Sexuality 138
Chapter 9 Another Key to Empowerment-No More Ms. Nice Girl 159
Part III Standing Up and Saying "No!"
Chapter 10 Have Your Wits about You-Strategies that Can Help Prevent Stranger and Acquaintance Rape 183
Chapter 11 Setting Boundaries and Limits 202
Chapter 12 Saying "No!" to Sexual Pressure and Coercion 220
Chapter 13 When Sexual Pressure Becomes Intimate Partner Abuse or Assault 228
Chapter 14 Saying "No!" to Sexual Harassment-From Street Harassment to Sexual Harassment at Work 238
Chapter 15 If You Are Ready to Report Sexual Assault or Abuse 256
Conclusion: Passing It On-Continue to Stand Up 263
Appendix A Recommended Reading 268
Appendix B Organizations to Join and Support 271
References 273