In the Mystery's Shadow: Reflections on Caring for the Elderly and Dying

In the Mystery's Shadow: Reflections on Caring for the Elderly and Dying

by Susan H. Swetnam


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As our lifespans continue to grow longer, millions of people every year spend time caring for the elderly and dying—some as professionals, some as volunteers, and some through their loving but demanding care for parents, spouses, or other family members or friends.

In her book In the Mystery’s Shadow, Susan Swetnam draws on her experience serving thousands of ill and dying clients, often in hospice programs, as a certified massage therapist—and also on her experience of caring for her own husband, who died young of cancer. She explains how this sometimes difficult work offers not just the fulfillment of giving comfort to people who need it, but also moments of breathtaking wonder, moments that hint at the untold complexity of being human and affirm our sacred connections with each other. She writes of the hard lessons caregivers learn about themselves, while at the same time knowing the strange and humbling sense of being used in the service of God’s love. Insightfully connecting end-of-life care with the liturgical year, Swetnam invites those who care for the sick and dying, whether professional or volunteer, to stay awake to the sacred implications of their labors. 

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780814663622
Publisher: Liturgical Press, The
Publication date: 06/06/2019
Pages: 168
Sales rank: 743,300
Product dimensions: 5.37(w) x 8.25(h) x 0.31(d)

About the Author

After three decades as an English professor at Idaho State University (during which she was honored as university distinguished teacher, researcher, and public servant), Susan Swetnam retired to a second-act career as a licensed massage therapist. She specializes in work with hospice patients, with the elderly, with cancer survivors, and with caregivers and the bereaved. She is the author of nine books and has published many articles and essays in national magazines (Gourmet, Mademoiselle), academic journals, regional magazines, and little/literary magazines. Widow of poet Ford Swetnam, she lives in southeastern Idaho, where she is a member of Holy Spirit Parish. 

Table of Contents

Introduction 1
Part 1: Contexts
1. Saying Yes to a Vocation in End-of-Life Care 13
2. Honoring the Rich Possibilities of Aging 28
Part 2: Practice
3. The Little Things 47
4. Reimagining Human Communication 59
5. The Saving Grace of Humor 71
6. Earthen Vessels 83
7. Other People’s Lives 94
8. Strangers as Friends 106
9. Ordinary Wonders 118
10. Mortality, Every Morning 130
Afterword: Many Parts 143
Notes 147
Further Readings 155

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