Table of Contents
Part I How We Got Here: Why Our Sexuality Is Broken
Introduction 1
Chapter 1 Our Sexual Brokenness 7
Chapter 2 Why We're Broken: Part 1 15
Our Sinfulness and Our Wiring
Chapter 3 Why We're Broken: Part 2 29
Our Woundedness and Our Enemy
Part 2 God's Design for Sex
Chapter 4 The God Who Designed Us 39
Chapter 5 Why Sexual Sin is Sin: Sex is Heterosexual 51
Homosexuality
Chapter 6 Why Sexual Sin Is Sin: Sex Is Relational 61
Polygamy, Masturbation, Sexual Fantasy, Erotica, Bestiality, Sexbots, Sex Toys, Sexual Fetishes, and BDSM
Chapter 7 Why Sexual Sin Is Sin: Sex Is Covenantal 81
Divorce, Remarriage, Singleness, How Far Is Too Far, Cohabitation, Oral Sex, and Pornography
Chapter 8 Why Sexual Sin Is Sin: Sex Is Fruitful 97
Childlessness, Birth Control, and Abortion
Chapter 9 Why Sexual Sin Is Sin: Sex Is Selfless 107
Conjugal Rights, Marital Rape, AR/VR Relationships, and What We Wear
Chapter 10 Why Sexual Sin Is Sin: Sex Is Symbolic 121
Submission, Polyamorous Relationships, and Swinging
Part 3 How to Fight Against Sexual Sin
Chapter 11 How to Identify the Roots of Your Sexual Struggles 129
Chapter 12 Action Steps for Fighting Sin 143
Chapter 13 How to Go from Emotionally Unhealthy to Healthy 157
Chapter 14 How to Walk Alongside Others in the Battle 173
Chapter 15 How God Heals Our Brokenness 185
Appendix
Appendix A A Tool for Discerning If a Sexual Act Is Sinful 201
Appendix B A Word on Sex Addiction 205
Appendix C A Word on Sexual Abuse 223
Appendix D A Word on Trauma 229
Acknowledgments 251
Notes 253