It's Not Me, It's You!

I have heard from friends and have been a victim of the phrase "It's not you, it's me." Yeah, that's the blanket statement your ex-significant other uses when they don't want to tell you the truth.

For the longest time, I tried to figure out what I had done wrong or what I could have done better. But guess what? I finally discovered that it wasn't me.

Then it hit me like a bolt of lightning. I had experienced this in many other situations besides exes: neighbors, bosses and even customer serv...