Naked and Unashamed: A Guide to the Necessary Work of Christian Marriage
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Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781640600652 |
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Publisher: | Paraclete Press |
Publication date: | 06/01/2018 |
Pages: | 224 |
Product dimensions: | 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.60(d) |
Age Range: | 18 Years |
About the Author
Table of Contents
Preface: The Purpose of This Book vii
Some Preliminary Guidelines for Engaged Couples ix
Chapter 1 The Necessary Work 1
Part 1 Undressing for Intimacy 17
Chapter 2 Undressing Your Stories 18
Chapter 3 Undressing the Heart 28
Chapter 4 Undressing the Mind 38
Chapter 5 Undressing the Soul 48
Part 2 Unpacking Communication 63
Chapter 6 Unpacking Gender 64
Chapter 7 Unpacking Communication 80
Chapter 8 Unpacking Woundedness 100
Part 3 Exploring Expectations 123
Chapter 9 Exploring the Expectations of Family and Culture 124
Chapter 10 Exploring the Expectations of Parenthood 136
Chapter 11 Exploring Financial Expectations 148
Part 4 Undressing for Sex 159
Chapter 12 Undressing the Sexual Self 160
Chapter 13 Undressing for a Life of Sex 180
Chapter 14 Undressing for the Wedding Night 192
Part 5 Final Words 199
Chapter 15 On the Writing of This Book 200
A Selected Bibliography of Marriage Helps 205
Acknowledgments 207
Notes 209
What People are Saying About This
“I have performed scores of weddings over the years, and my wife and I have done the pre-marital counseling. I wish this insightful book had been available for us.” —Lyle W. Dorsett, PhD, Billy Graham Professor of Evangelism, Beeson Divinity School “Naked and Unashamed is a must-read for any couple seeking to do Christian marriage in a way that is glorifying to God. Part master class, part playbook, this frank and easy-to-understand guide is packed with critical insights and practical wisdom that can be applied immediately. This book leaves its readers equipped to engage in their marriage relationship in a truly transformational way. I cannot recommend it highly enough.” —Michelle Moujaes, Founder and Executive Director, Faithtree Resources “Beth and I are just one of hundreds of couples that have been blessed to begin our marriage journey together with Claudia and Jerry Root, and the sweet delight of our nearly 30-years marriage owes much to that first push in the right direction we received from our time with them. Learning to be truly intimate—to dare the hard work of sharing stories, hearts, minds, dreams, aspirations, and, lastly, bodies—is the long road of marriage. This book is a reliable map to that road.” —The Very Rev Chip Edgar, Dean and Rector of the Anglican Cathedral Church of the Apostles in Columbia, SC “I have known Jerry and Claudia Root for many years, and there is no one I would trust more to help couples understand what a strong and healthy and God-honoring marriage requires. I am acutely aware of the need for practical wisdom to help prepare couples for the life-long journey of marriage, and that is precisely what they have given us. I can't wait to put this book into practice in our church!” —Jeff Frazier, Lead Pastor, Chapelstreet Church, Geneva, IL “My wife and I have spent four decades doing pre-marital and marital counseling. I wish we’d had this book when we began. Jerry and Claudia Root’s insights come from a lifetime of scholarship, pastoral care coupled with their experiences of living faithfully in the covenant of their own marriage. The insights found in Naked and Unashamed are, in a word, invaluable. We will definitely be using this book in future pre-marital counseling.” —Pastor Reed and Lisa Jolley, Santa Barbara Community Church “I have known Jerry and Claudia Root for many years, and there is no one I would trust more to help couples understand what a strong and healthy and God-honoring marriage requires. I am acutely aware of the need for practical wisdom to help prepare couples for the life-long journey of marriage, and that is precisely what they have given us. I can't wait to put this book into practice in our church!” —Jeff Frazier, Lead Pastor, Chapelstreet Church, Geneva, IL “This is not just a book for those contemplating marriage, it’s for all of us, no matter how many years we have been married. I recommend two copies, one for yourself and one for a couple that you know needs this critical Biblical perspective.” —Dr. Erwin W. Lutzer, Pastor Emeritus, The Moody Church, Chicago "Refreshingly frank and direct in its guidance, Naked and Unashamed sketches out the field of Godly marriage realistically, but also includes the relational fences that safeguard couples. Root, Root, and Rios disenchant us with fairy tales in order to re-enchant us with vulnerability, wonder, sex, communication, and more—things that make marriage and family sustainable. This compelling read will be my book of choice for the next round of pre-marital counseling!"–Dru Johnson, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Biblical & Theological Studies, The King's College, New York