Soft Eyes, Strong Spine

Soft Eyes, Strong Spine is part memoir, part field guide for divorced dads navigating separation, shared custody, and the daily tests of fatherhood in transition.

Divorced fathers live inside a set of contradictions: be steady, but not cold. Be available, but not needy. Hold boundaries, but don't become rigid. Many men try to solve that tension by bracing themselves-until their children start feeling the pressure.

Written from lived experience, this book offers a grounded path for staying emo...