Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships

Sex is still a touchy subject despite recent sex-positive advances. We live in a culture that vilifies people who are sexually adventurous and frames our kinks as shame-inducing perversions. Many people have never been able to talk openly about sex with their partner(s). But, you can get what you want out of the bedroom-if you ask for it. Why should anyone settle for mediocre sex?!



Whether addressing sexual frustration with your partner, trying out new fantasies, or negotiating the terms of ...