Walking Down the Stairs Backward in the Dark

Our brains are extraordinary organs. They function best when they're nourished with love, healthy relationships, honesty and security. Children's brains that are exposed to repeated cruelty are instead shaped by shame, confusion, judgment, lies, and fear. This is important because our brains are where our thoughts originate and assemble. Our thoughts influence our emotions, decisions and behavior.

God knew me in my Mother's womb. He knew I would have a turbulent childhood and my brain would...