We Are Totally Normal

by Rahul Kanakia, Sunil Malhotra (Read by), TBD (Read by)

Overview

In this queer contemporary YA, perfect for fans of Becky Albertalli and This Is Kind of an Epic Love Story, Nandan’s perfect plan for junior year goes awry after he hooks up with a guy for the first time.

Nandan’s got a plan to make his junior year perfect, but hooking up with his friend Dave isn’t part of it—especially because Nandan has never been into guys.

Still, Nandan’s willing to give a relationship with him a shot. But the more his anxiety grows about what his sexuality means for himself, his friends, and his social life, the more he wonders whether he can just take it all back.

Is breaking up with Dave—the only person who’s ever really gotten him—worth feeling “normal” again?

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781094118307
Publisher:	HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date:	03/31/2020
Edition description:	Unabridged
Product dimensions:	5.80(w) x 5.60(h) x 0.60(d)
Age Range:	12 - 17 Years

About the Author

Sunil Malhotra is an actor and voice artist. His film credits include Dude, Where’s the Party?, Call Center, 24, ER, Cold Case, and The West Wing. On stage, he has performed on Broadway and at East West Players. He has also worked as a writer, producer, and director, and his audiobook narrations have won three AudioFile Earphones Awards.

Rahul Kanakia's novels include We Are Totally Normal and Enter Title Here. Additionally, his stories have appeared in Asimov’s Science Fiction, Clarkesworld, Fantasy & Science Fiction, Lightspeed, Indiana Review, and Nature, and he has received fellowships from the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts and the Lambda Literary Foundation. Originally from Washington, DC, Rahul now lives in San Francisco. Visit him at www.rahulkanakia.com.

Editorial Reviews

"A touching novel about all the confusions and intensities of high school, from sexuality to peer pressure... The novel deftly negotiates the complexities of teenage friendships and relationships with insight and compassion." — Teen Vogue

"We Are Totally Normal downplays its literary sensibility with lighthearted humor and smart, bantering dialog. This book is a great choice for readers interested in LGBTQ+ and QPOC romance and post-Millennial coming-of-age stories." — them.us

"With its fast, dialogue-driven pacing, humor, and finger on the youthful pulse, this book will find an eager audience in queer and questioning teens, especially those of color." — Booklist

"[We Are Totally Normal's] strength lies in the normalization of negotiating the complex social structure of teenage friendships and relationships." — Kirkus Reviews

"This is not a typical coming-out narrative.... The most interesting parts of the book deal with Nandan’s conflicted feelings about masculinity and gendered friendships, as he struggles to understand the power dynamics among his male friends and longs for close platonic friendships with girls." — School Library Journal

"This story could be what a reader out there needs." — Voice of Youth Advocates (VOYA)

"Told through the eyes of one of the most endearing and real characters I’ve ever met, We Are Totally Normal is validating, entertaining, and filled with love." — Kacen Callender, Stonewall award-winning author of This Is Kind of an Epic Love Story

“Nandan’s fresh perspective is a gift—I can’t wait for readers to experience it!” — M-E Girard, Lambda Literary Award-winning author of Girl Mans Up

“A brilliant coming-of-age story. Every teen needs this book.” — Julian Winters, award-winning author of Running With Lions

“An endearing, messy, and honest exploration of identity that reminds us that discovering who we aren’t is as important as discovering who we are.” — Shaun David Hutchinson, author of We Are the Ants and Brave Face

"An engrossing and palpable story that is in no rush to have all the answers, and that's totally normal."  — Sara Farizan, award-winning author of Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel

“Incisive, funny, and gloriously messy.” — Kelly Loy Gilbert, author of Picture Us in the Light

“A perfect story about the complications of sexuality and identity. I adored this book from beginning to end.” — Mason Deaver, author of I Wish You All the Best

“A fresh and rare exploration of sexuality, identity, friendship, and love.” — Dahlia Adler, author of Under the Lights

"Raw, intimate, and unflinchingly honest, We Are Totally Normal fully embraces the messiness and unpredictability of the human heart.  — Laurie Elizabeth Flynn, author of Firsts, Last Girl Lied To, and All Eyes on Her

"One of my favorite things about how much queer YA we get these years is that we’re finally allowed to have the messy stuff, the representation that isn’t the neatest and most pristine and clear cut.... Is Nandan bisexual? Is he in it to be more interesting? Is he always going to be “different” now, even more than before? So many questions and no great answers, but exploring the complexity of it all is the beauty of this book." — LGBTQ Reads

From the Publisher

"This story could be what a reader out there needs."

Voice of Youth Advocates (VOYA)

"A touching novel about all the confusions and intensities of high school, from sexuality to peer pressure... The novel deftly negotiates the complexities of teenage friendships and relationships with insight and compassion."

Teen Vogue

"We Are Totally Normal downplays its literary sensibility with lighthearted humor and smart, bantering dialog. This book is a great choice for readers interested in LGBTQ+ and QPOC romance and post-Millennial coming-of-age stories."

them.us

"Told through the eyes of one of the most endearing and real characters I’ve ever met, We Are Totally Normal is validating, entertaining, and filled with love."

Kacen Callender

An endearing, messy, and honest exploration of identity that reminds us that discovering who we aren’t is as important as discovering who we are.

Shaun David Hutchinson

A brilliant coming-of-age story. Every teen needs this book.

Julian Winters

Nandan’s fresh perspective is a gift—I can’t wait for readers to experience it!

M-E Girard

"With its fast, dialogue-driven pacing, humor, and finger on the youthful pulse, this book will find an eager audience in queer and questioning teens, especially those of color."

Booklist

Incisive, funny, and gloriously messy.

Kelly Loy Gilbert

"Raw, intimate, and unflinchingly honest, We Are Totally Normal fully embraces the messiness and unpredictability of the human heart. 

Laurie Elizabeth Flynn

A fresh and rare exploration of sexuality, identity, friendship, and love.

Dahlia Adler

"An engrossing and palpable story that is in no rush to have all the answers, and that's totally normal." 

Sara Farizan

"One of my favorite things about how much queer YA we get these years is that we’re finally allowed to have the messy stuff, the representation that isn’t the neatest and most pristine and clear cut.... Is Nandan bisexual? Is he in it to be more interesting? Is he always going to be “different” now, even more than before? So many questions and no great answers, but exploring the complexity of it all is the beauty of this book."

LGBTQ Reads

A perfect story about the complications of sexuality and identity. I adored this book from beginning to end.

Mason Deaver

"With its fast, dialogue-driven pacing, humor, and finger on the youthful pulse, this book will find an eager audience in queer and questioning teens, especially those of color."

Booklist

Nandan’s fresh perspective is a gift—I can’t wait for readers to experience it!

M-E Giraud

02/01/2020

Gr 10 Up—High school senior Nandan, who is of South Asian descent, broke up with his perfect girlfriend, Avani, because being around her made him too anxious. He struggles with feeling like everyone around him is brighter and more interesting than he is, and that all of his specialness is by association only. When he befriends quiet, bow tie–wearing Dave, Nandan immediately turns him into a project—he will help Dave figure out how to hook up with Mari, his supposed crush. Instead, Nandan and Dave hook up and Nandan must struggle with how, or whether, to define his sexuality. This is not a typical coming-out narrative: Nandan worries that his coming out may be a form of attention-seeking to please his diverse friend group, who think it's cool to be queer. Nandan is deeply selfish and spends most of his time obsessing over the minute intricacies of his friend group's social dynamics. Everyone is using everyone else, and his male friends frequently make sexist comments and approach girls as conquests rather than as people. All of this makes the reading experience tedious, although teens are likely to find the narrative realistic. The most interesting parts of the book deal with Nandan's conflicted feelings about masculinity and gendered friendships, as he struggles to understand the power dynamics among his male friends and longs for close platonic friendships with girls. VERDICT This novel covers unique ground, but unappealing characters and a meandering narrative will put off many readers.—Elizabeth Giles, Lubuto Library Partners, Zambia

School Library Journal

2019-12-22
Nandan is perpetually lost.

Confused about his sexuality, his social status, and how he feels about the other high school students he calls his friends, Nandan manipulates and maneuvers his way through social interactions, hanging out with people he doesn't really like. Nandan hooks up with Dave, who "was actually kind of hot," but "maybe folks didn't see it because he was Asian." He feels disgusted about it later and wonders if he only did it to try and impress the popular crowd. These teens include Pothan and Ken, who are both bullies and gaslighters as well as sexist. The book includes a character who feels like being gay would make him cool, blasé and sarcastic use of the term "microaggressions," teenage alcohol abuse, many unhealthy relationships and friendships, and an entire conversation by boys about how to manipulate a girl into sleeping with you. It is reminiscent of how exhausting being a teen can be, as all the characters are so crippled with anxiety and overthinking that the story advances at a snail's pace. Its strength lies in the normalization of negotiating the complex social structure of teenage friendships and relationships, but it is also reminiscent of watching a documentary or reality show about awful people that was largely, painfully unedited. Nandan is Indian American, and there is diversity in the supporting cast.

Frustratingly long-winded and rambling. (Fiction. 14-18)

Kirkus Reviews