Growing Yourself Back Up: Understanding Emotional Regression

Growing Yourself Back Up: Understanding Emotional Regression

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by John Lee
     
 

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Someone pushes your buttons . . . you feel rage . . . fear . . . sweaty palms . . . unbidden tears . . . you feel like a kid . . .

We've all experienced moments when we lose control of a situation and ourselves. Now, in Growing Yourself Back Up, the first book to explain the idea of emotional regression to the general reader, bestselling author John Lee

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Someone pushes your buttons . . . you feel rage . . . fear . . . sweaty palms . . . unbidden tears . . . you feel like a kid . . .

We've all experienced moments when we lose control of a situation and ourselves. Now, in Growing Yourself Back Up, the first book to explain the idea of emotional regression to the general reader, bestselling author John Lee identifies the circumstances that cause these seemingly uncontrollable feelings and shows how they are directly tied to our experience as children.

No adult, explains Lee, need ever experience the helpless feelings of childhood again. Here are his proven methods and visualization exercises, developed in his popular workshops, for recognizing, preventing, and diffusing regression in ourselves and others. He teaches, for example, that adults cannot be abandoned, they can only be left; if we're feeling abandoned we're regressing. He also reminds us that no matter how overwhelmed we are, adults always have options; if we believe we don't, we're in a regression.

Growing Yourself Back Up will show you how to:
* develop strong emotional boundaries and convey them to others
* learn the Detour Method that reverses regression
* confront without regressing
* communicate with the authority figures who push your buttons
* minimize regression at family functions

Lee offers hope—as well as practical strategies that work—for conquering those childlike feelings of powerlessness that are almost always rooted in regression.

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780609806418
Publisher:
Potter/TenSpeed/Harmony
Publication date:
01/28/2001
Edition description:
1ST
Pages:
240
Sales rank:
166,007
Product dimensions:
5.18(w) x 7.98(h) x 0.50(d)

Meet the Author

John Lee is the author of the bestselling Flying Boy series, as well as Facing the Fire: Experiencing and Expressing Anger Appropriately and Writing from the Body. He lives in Woodstock, Georgia, with his wife, Susan, and conducts workshops around the country.

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Guest More than 1 year ago
John Lee explains life, and how I live it in a simple text that allows me to recognize not just when I am regressing, but where I have regressed to, and how to bring myself out and up to who I am today. When I 'grow myself back up', I can communicate more effectively, and accept I do not have to feel ashamed of my process. John Lee's workshops are the most engaging, and REAL I have ever had the pleasure to participate in.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
If you have any contact with others on a professional basis, this is THE book to keep you sane! This book will help you in every relationship - personal or professional - as it contains clear & and easy-to-follow steps to keep you focused on the issue at hand. Each of us have learned methods of coping, communicating & processing whaat we "thought" we heard the other person say. We learned these methods as children. However, these methods actually sabotage our ability to communicate as adults. Not surprisingly, many, if not most, of our communications, conversations and/or interactions with others are stressful, intense, heated, confrontational, emtionally-laden, and involve opposing opnions or conflicting positions. Without a conscious effort to remain "focused" on the issue at hand, we automatically resort to our childhood methods of coomunicating - which does not serve us well as adults. This book has all the tools, tips, scripts, and detailed instructions you need to "grow yourself back up." If you are willing to change, and make the effort, this book can transform you into the highly-successful, productive, effective, drama-free adult of your dreams. As with anything in Life, it works if you work it. YMMV.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is a book outside the box information. Once you start reading it, you cannot put it down. I've learned so much about myself thru this book. I highly recommend it.
2011scribe More than 1 year ago
John Lee's book has changed my life and perhaps saved my marriage. I am recommending this book to all my grown children and my friends. This book helps one to understand why he/she has "flashbacks" and projects on the people around him/her things that happened in childhood... how these distant "neural memories" affect us today. An absolute "must read" for everyone!