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Overview

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen' We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair' Can I trust my spouse again' Should I reveal a secret affair' What if my spouse doesn't want me back' What do we tell the kids'
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Overview

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen' We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair' Can I trust my spouse again' Should I reveal a secret affair' What if my spouse doesn't want me back' What do we tell the kids'

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780802479556
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 5/1/2007
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 320
  • Sales rank: 78,581
  • File size: 755 KB

Meet the Author

DAVE CARDER currently serves as Pastor responsible for Counseling
and Marriage Ministries at the First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton. He holds
graduate degrees in Biblical Literature and in Marital and Family Therapy as well
as the Michigan Limited License in Psychology and the Marriage and Family Therapy
license in California. Dave has published five books, one of which won The Gold
Medallion Award in Personal Evangelism in 1993. Dave and his wife, Ronnie, have
four adult children and five grandchildren. In their spare time they enjoy jogging.

R.
DUNCAN JAENICKE (B.A., University of Illinois) has done postgraduate work in
psychology and counseling and frequently writes on related subjects. He is co-author
of Connections and a collaborator for Torn Asunder.

Table of Contents

Foreword
Acknowledgements
Prologue: A Letter from "The Other Woman"

Section
1: Understanding Extramarital Affairs

1. "What God Hath Joined Together":
In Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages

2. Sorting Out the Chaos: The
One-Night Stand and Sexual Addiction

3. Sorting Out the Chaos: The Entangled
Affair and the Add-on Affair

4. Causes: Environments That Allow Affairs to
Flourish

5. Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity


Section
2: Healing from Affairs

6. Understanding the Recovery: The Infidel's Process

7.
Understanding the Recovery: The Spouse's Process

8. Why? Deciphering the
Message of the Affair

9. Anger in Affairs: Getting Good Out of Getting Mad
10.
Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust

11. "And They Shall Be As One": Restructuring
Intimacy


Section 3: Special Circumstances

12. To Tell or Not
to Tell? The Secret Affair

13. Emotional Affairs: Hooked, Played-out, and
Desperate for Release

14. When Your Spouse Doesn't Want You Back: The 90-Day
Experiment

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