Table of Contents
Preface 5
Part I Facing Facts
Chapter 1 Flashover Flashback 13
Chapter 2 What the Hell Happened? 26
Part II Facing Forward
Chapter 3 Unmask 49
Chapter 4 Look in the Mirror 68
Chapter 5 Trust What You See, Not What Others See in You 75
Chapter 6 … But Also Find People to Trust Who Aren't You 90
Chapter 7 Throw the First Punch* 102
Chapter 8 Listen, That's All 114
Chapter 9 Be Yourself. Don't Sell Yourself 121
Chapter 10 Stock Up on Foxholes 138
Chapter 11 Imagine It's Worse 147
Chapter 12 Instead of Outrunning the Truth, Run with It 155
Chapter 13 Embrace the Unknowable 166
Chapter 14 Face Yourself (If You Think You Have, You Still Probably Haven't) 171
Afterword 187
Acknowledgments 189