Don't say "Everything happens for a reason": What patients and caregivers want friends to know about helping them through the horrors of cancer

"My friend has cancer. What can I do to best help them?" A cancer diagnosis of a friend, acquaintance, or co-worker will often leave us wondering about the most appropriate things to say to someone suffering from this dreadful disease. In general, cancer fighters much prefer aid and comfort during their agonizing treatment over being subjected to empty clichés and annoyingly dismissive "you need to stay positive" lectures. Keith Hardeman's, "Don't say 'Everything happens for a reason'" is a...