How You Became You (and Why You Do the Things You Do): How Abusive Parenting Styles Debilitate Children

There are two common parenting styles with defined negative effects at two extremes: rigid and chaotic. Rigid parenting involves excessive rules, narrow expectations from parents for their children, and unreasonable punishments. Children raised in these conditions become adults who frequently suffer from anxiety, OCD, and perfectionism. They are often defensive and reactive, seeking out acceptance and approval from others

In contrast, chaotic parenting offers few to no rules, allowing child...