In Search of FREEZER MEAT: A Story of the Male Mental Health Crisis Caused by Erectile Dysfunction and the Only True Cure...a Penis Implant

by Sharay Punisher Hayes

Overview

Erectile dysfunction and low sexual confidence are killing men quietly—and nobody's really talking about it. Hayes, once a full-blown sex symbol, hit rock bottom when things stopped working. Pills didn't help. Advice didn't stick. So he went deeper—looking not just for how to fix it, but why it was happening in the first place.

What he discovered changed everything: the problem wasn't just physical—it was mental. And not just about sex, either. It was tied to his confidence, his income, his sense of self, even his worth as a man. Most guys never connect the dots.

This book is raw, unfiltered, and straight-up real talk. Hayes shares his story—funny, painful, and always honest—to help other men understand what's really going on beneath the surface. No fluff, no filters, just one guy talking to another about things most of us are too scared to say out loud.

If you're struggling—or know a man who is—this book is for you. And yes, women should read it too. You'll finally understand the men in your life in a way you never have before.

Sex, self-worth, and mental health—they're all connected. Let's talk about it. Man to man.

Product Details

BN ID:	2940184375991
Publisher:	Sharay Punisher Hayes
Publication date:	05/12/2025
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
File size:	5 MB

About the Author

So I understand that this is the part where I’m supposed to drop my resume and qualifications to make myself look good—and you’ll learn all those details as you read the book. But first and foremost, I want to say that I see myself as just a guy with what I believe is a powerful message, delivered through very personal stories about my life. That life includes being a celebrity-level male stripper for 30 years, a reality TV personality, a real estate investor, a business owner, and—most importantly—a womanizing, emotionally traumatized man. My journey has allowed me to experience the highs and lows of life in a broad way, and it created a perspective that, although our specific details may differ, the core experiences are common and shared by all men. Along the way, I figured out some very important things about masculinity, self-worth, and sexuality as a man—things I believe will resonate with you on a human level. I’m just here hoping that my wins, losses, and the solutions I’ve found up to this point in my life might help you—whether it’s feeling better about yourself, understanding someone you care about a little more, or avoiding some of the challenges I went through. I conquered through self-help, and now I’m here to encourage self-help in others. Thank you sincerely for your time and interest in my life, my opinions, and my message. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed living it