Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith

Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith

by Martha Beck
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Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith 3.7 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 64 reviews.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I found Martha Beck¿s account of her religious experience to be fascinating. Her wit and writing style make for an outstanding read. The outrage concerning this book comes from one segment of American society... people associated with the LDS church. Although I am not Mormon, I have conversed with Elders of the Mormon Church and studied the Mormon religion. Ms. Beck has not revealed anything that has not already been disclosed. A person with an open mind will see how painful it was for the author to separate from family and friends due to the tenants for the LDS Church. Ms. Beck does express rather well her issues with the LDS Church and its leadership as well as her admiration and love for her Mormon friends and family. Some say that what she has written is derogatory and an attempt to defame a religion. Lamentably, the most incensed are the ones who need to consider what Martha Beck has written and explore for themselves the possibility that her points may have merit.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I laughed, I cried but most of all I found comfort in learning that I was not the only one to go through all of this. To see that my life and experiences in Mormon-land were so identical to someone else is very healing. Like Martha, I also had to leave. This book has helped me to cope knowing that I was not alone.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Thank you, Martha Beck, for a very honest, personal, heart-wrenching story of your life with the Mormons. My experience doesn't come close to yours, I was raised in a very "normal" Catholic environment. When I went off to college I left it behind--like so many of my cohorts in the 70's-- religion seemed unnecessary and anachronistic. At age 28 I met and married a non-practicing mormon. But over the next 15 years I came to discover the "cultish" nature of his family and upbringing, a culture which turned out to be nightmarish for me and my children. Slowly the beliefs and indoctrination began to unwind and I learned the bizarre reasons for my growing discomfort around my husband and his family. I won't go into detail, suffice it to say that everything you revealed rang true and I have passed the book along to my grown children. I hope it will help them deal with the confused feelings of abandonment they have experienced since "we" walked out on their father.
Guest More than 1 year ago
The book wasn't what I had expected - I had expected the story of an intellectual's gradual distancing from the LDS Church rather than the gripping story of her coming to terms with childhood sexual abuse. Nonetheless, the story is brutal, honest, well-written and actually (at times) even funny.
Guest More than 1 year ago
When I read these words towards the end of the book, something opened up inside me. As an ardent reader of memoirs, autobiographies and bios, this book will remain on my shelf as a favorite. I received the book as a gift and I hope the giver knows just how many gifts are found within the pages for me. I'm drawn to the authors sense of curiosity, her need to know more and not to stop with the facts (her assertion) of the abuse to herself. Personally I have no doubt about her assertions as to her own experiences. Additionally I relish her own search for her understanding of the 'whys' behind the abuse. This is something that has been helpful and healing for myself. We may never truly know why abuse occurs specific to an abuser, but I find it helpful to look beyond the act or events to see the world that created a place for such abuse to occur. This is a book I recommend to many in various aspects of my life. An excellent read, engrossing, life savingly humorous and fascinating.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I am amazingly impressed with Martha Beck's honesty about such difficult subjects as religion and sexual abuse. I couldn't put the book down. Her writing is clear and honest about her family, Mormonism, and her struggle to cope with her father's sins. She still manages to be entertaining and write with a style that keeps you laughing out loud at her descriptions and clutching your chest at the heart-wrenching way she was treated both by her family and her community. It would have much easier not to write this book but the fact that she did and that so many people have been helped as a result makes her a hero in my book. After reading it there is little wonder that the Mormon community would rally around the Church. You see them with the single star ratings.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Ms. Beck's courage is most striking in her story. Though recovered memories are highly controversial, many of her other experiences with the church are quite truthfully told. This is her story, not a bash-fest. She never expresses hatred towards the Mormon church; she does create a clear picture of how the church operates and why it didn't work for her. Please give her a chance to tell her story- approach it without bias, and you may be surprised by the truth in it.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Bravo! I could hardly put the book down! Beck describes Mormon culture with humor, sensitivity, and accuracy. I was a devout Mormon for 26 years before leaving the LDS Church after finding many contradictions in doctrines, Church history being revised, and learning that Joseph Smith married other men's wives. It takes courage to stand for the truth, especially when it means losing every thing you thought you knew, including your loved ones and 'friends' when they shun you for 'apostatizing.' 'Leaving the Saints' is a compelling account. I, too, 'lost the Mormons' and found Jesus of the Bible! Hallelujah!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book fully was meant to enrich the lives of many. The book was written as a journey that was meant to be shared. This Author has gone through (Eyes-Wide-opened) and shared unthinkable childhood memories that can never fully be understood by a true loving human. This dark secret doesn't have to live in shame and self-destruction any longer. This author has open many positive doors to many mormon-women that are living in denial and shame. The Author explains how we can over-come the unthinkable and help others, as well. And those who are still trying to cover-up for a 'church' that practices False-Biblical Teachings and ideals an monstrous (Not a True Godly man) icon by the name of Joseph Smith are more lost than the gentiles. The author discusses the known programming-classes (Primary) that given to and demanded to be taken by small, innocent, naive, easily misguided children(Should be a loving parents first RED-LIGHT). I exscaped from mormonism more than a decade ago and everything that was written is exactly true. They made sure I lost everything including my family. But God was right, They could never take away what 'The One-True God' had given me, FAITH in the truth.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Wonderful book about family, religion and secrets needing healed along with wounds from these areas. Is about Ms. Beck's search for truth, healing, and the power of love and forgiveness in her quest. Uplifting and gut wrentching as she battles her own inner struggles and the willingness to see it through. Her sense of humor is hilirious and adds levity. I recommend reading her book Expecting Adam first. It ties into this as a flow. A mixture of Spirit and being grounded. Fear into Love. If in a period of crises now or to be of help if one comes, Expecting Adam can be a human/spiritual REALness. Was also a catapult for this book, Leaving the Saints.
Justine Lichtenstern More than 1 year ago
Martha Beck is a wonderful, witty writer. I not only loved this book but I also completely believed her account. I know enough about both the LDS and FLDS to assert that this so-called religion is simply a cult led by pedophiles who dominate through mind control, sexual abuse, persecution, violence and forced allegience.
TerriLS42 More than 1 year ago
It took a lot of personal courage for Martha to write this book, and I'm glad she did. I learned quite a bit about the Morman church, family dynamics, and the importance of personal growth, however painful.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Well written and very informative. This book provides a factual insight into the creepy, ultrasecretive non-christian religion exposing factual truths that this church's leaders would rather keep hidden. I highly recommend this book.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This is an amazing memoir about the life of a woman who grew up betrayed by those who should have protected her. I can easily relate to her pain because my book talks about the same subjects and having grown up Mormon in an abusive environment. Very sad but very true, sexual abuse is an all-too common occurance in the Mormon church, while its leaders go to great lengths to cover up the scandals and crimes. I applaud Martha for her bravery in dealing with an issue that most people would rather stick their heads in the sand about. Her honest, witty, and moving account is nothing short of a masterpiece in literature.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Beck's book is a wonderful read that explores the paradigm that is her life. She details her history of abuse at the hands of her father and the impact it had on her life. At the same time she goes into lesser known truths about Mormon (LDS)Doctrine, and her perceptions of the reality of living within the domain of the Church. She is funny and honest, and her writing style & focus on the scientific method is very typical of a social scientist. An excellent book!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I purchased this book because I have a friend who left the Mormons after her ex-husband molested her children and the church basically told her to forgive and forget. She was supposed to go home and act as if nothing had ever happened. I was a little skeptical of her story because I find it hard to believe that organized religious leaders would act in such a ridiculous manner. I got chills while reading the book because my friend's sentiments and concerns were conveyed as if she had written the book herself. She had been telling me things about the Mormons for at least a year before this book was published. Thank you Martha Beck for having the courage to tell your story. It is obviously the truth and it is ironic that you were raised in a religion that prides itself on TRUTH, yet when you tell the real truth, they hypocritically tried to destroy you and your family. Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses have a lot of secrets and rituals in common. I am giving my friend this book for her birthday because I know it will be extraordinarily healing for her.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Martha Beck is a well known, respected writer who leads us through the steps created that led her away from her family of origin faith. She is neither nasty about that decision, nor does she paint herself as a victim. It is an intellectual, honest appraisal of why it did not work for her. HIGHLY recommend.
BusyProfessional More than 1 year ago
Very scary book about how the organized Mormon religion forces people to think and act exactly as it wants, or else they face not only expulsion from the church, but physical threats. A must-read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I have read this book twice now, and unlike some of the readers that have posted reviews, find the book fascinating, heartwrenching, humorous, and I do believe that the events that are said to have taken place by the author...did. It is terrifying that others have posted, "I know for a fact that members do not abuse children". This alone proves the validity of the entire book. No religion is without faults, mistakes, issues or wrong doings, just as they have good qualities and teachings as well. To be so blind as to say such things "don't happen" is to lead your life with your head in the sand. I read on many religions, and find it all very fascinating. My husband was raised Mormon, and was sexually abused by his mothers boyfriend. She choose her faith over protecting her child. She was searching for a new husband, and that surpassed all other priorities. He, of course, grew up and left the church, as I left Catholosism. Belief ismampersonal choice....but those who let others make that choice for them, have given up the right to defend its practices. Learn and educate yourself about the truth of your faith....for their are many that know more about it than you choose to discover.
Marcia Hickman More than 1 year ago
Through honesty, intelligence and realism, Martha has helped me once again to see the world in a new light. Specifically, she helped me see God in a different way expanding my faith and giving me the courage to look even harder for God outside of church.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I couldn't put this book down. People say the Da Vinci code was an exciting story of conspiracy, but this book tops that, considering Martha Beck's is a true story. This is also a great book to read for someone who wants to learn how to overcome being a victim of sexual abuse.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This is another excellent book written about the deception that riddles the Mormon faith. Most books have been written by former Mormon's who finally saw through the lies. Martha Beck wonderfully expresses the truth behind the facade of the Mormon Cult. Her ability to find humor, despite the violations of her father and the Mormon hierarchy, are a true testament to her resilience. Most Mormon's would rather believe that things like this do not go on within their community, however, the TRUTH is that sexual abuse among children is rampant within Mormonism. Kudos to Martha for bringing the truth to the public. Hopefully this will enlighten the people that the Mormon Missionaries are trained to prey upon.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book is amazing. You will love the honest, kind heart that wrote it. Do not let the negative reviews keep you from reading it. Due to their venomous nature, the reviews obviously written by active Mormons back up the very things Martha Beck wrote about. It's her story. Write your own book on how good the Mormons have been to you if you have that big of problem with it.
Guest More than 1 year ago
The only reason I give this author 5 stars is because she had to courage to tell her story, realizing that she would be scrutinized by the narrow minded church of which she speeks of.I admire her strength and courage.And admire the fact that she can stir the pot in the two faced church that helped her and damned her in the end! I to, left the church that seems to be such a contradiction in faith.Leaving the Saints is a compelling book that will only get bad reviews because nobody in that church can see the truth!!
relativelyspeaking More than 1 year ago
I didn't know much about this religion except that I work with several great LDS folks and have many friends who are LDS also. I know some who have left the church for various reasons. That said and from a non-LDS objective view, I felt the angst of this book. It was very clear the author had been through extremely traumatic experiences in her life of which her recovery from was stifled, by the shame and guilt instilled in this family over religion. While the same could be said about Catholocism, Lutheran or other religions (all have the guilt and shame going...) I found this book's perspective to be a cross between light- hearted and traumatic. It swung like a swing from one mood to the next, leaving me emotionally exhausted in some areas. It is a truly gripping read however and one that left me feeling like saying, 'but hey what about the good things about this religion?'. I've read about many religions - I'm not biased, they all have good and bad to them. For that reason, I caution for people out there to get a balance of the good and bad about the LDS religion. If I only read this, I would be thinking 'bad' about this religion, without giving it a fair and balanced chance.