There you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts, just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication is so important, but it's so difficult to tell your lover exactly what you want, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don't want to hurt his feelings, or make him think he isn't a good lover. Maybe you just don't know what words to use. Or maybe you don't even know what you want yourself, or you're embarrassed, or shy, or reluctant to ask.
But sharing our sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well. When we know what to say and feel comfortable enough to say the words needed to stimulate particular sexual activity, we feel safer and more contented.
On the other hand, when we hold ourselves back, we may feel frustrated and even angry, feelings that are destructive to any relationship.
Written by sex therapist Carole Altman (Electrify Your Sex Life), Sex Talk will give couples all the tools they need to communicate everything,
including fantasies and fetishes, preferences and desires, in a way that will make their sex life even more exciting and explosive.
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Table of Contents
Chapter One The Basics: What to Say and How to Say It
Chapter Two Getting Started: Finding the Words
Chapter Three Non-Verbal Communication: Use Your Body to Say It for You
Chapter Four Discovering Each Other: Your Sexual Needs, Pleasures and
Chapter Five Sharing Emotional Needs: What Do You Both Need and Want Most?
Chapter Six Sharing Fantasies: Communicating and Fulfilling Each Other's
Chapter Seven Fantasies Sharing Fetishes: Communicating and Satisfying
Chapter Eight Sexual Preferences and Needs: Success and Failure
Chapter Nine Exploring Sexual Pleasure: Discover Your Body,
Chapter Ten Sex Talk: Communication Games That Are Hot and Fun
Chapter Eleven Men and Women Tell All: What Worked and Didn't Work in
Chapter Twelve You Want It Now: When You Need Instant Gratification
Chapter Thirteen Time Out: The Serious Conversation
Chapter Fourteen A Fly on the Wall: Couples' Sexual Communication