Talking with God: What to Say When You Don't Know How to Pray

Talking with God: What to Say When You Don't Know How to Pray

by Adam Weber

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Talking with God: What to Say When You Don't Know How to Pray by Adam Weber

Prayer seems like it should be so simple. Yet, when it comes to actually praying, so often it feels awkward and complicated. The truth is, prayer is simple. It's like talking. Talking with a good friend. Down-to-earth pastor Adam Weber offers an accessible, hopeful approach to one of life's greatest mysteries: talking with God.

Now with a brand new bonus chapter and in paperback. This is a book on prayer for the person who longs to connect with God, but doesn't really know how. It's a book for the person who has a job, family, schedule, kids, deadlines, full inbox, and a million things to do and yet is curious about prayer and talking with God.

What does it really look like to pray in the midst of all of life's craziness?

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781601429469
Publisher: The Crown Publishing Group
Publication date: 02/27/2018
Pages: 240
Sales rank: 225,201
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 7.80(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

ADAM WEBER lives in Sioux Falls, South Dakota. He likes typewriters, drives a Rambler, cheers for the Cincinnati Bengals, and has 4 chickens: Percy, Lady, Cocoa, and Mocha.  He's the Founder and Lead Pastor of Embrace, an 8-year-old church that has grown to 4 campuses and 3,000+ in weekly attendance. In 2013 and 2014, Embrace was listed as one of the fastest growing churches in America according to Outreach Magazine. He was recognized as one of the youngest senior pastors both years. He and his beautiful wife, Becky, have four kids: Hudson, Wilson, Grayson, and Anderson.

Read an Excerpt

Me: How would you best describe prayer?
Roger Fredrikson: Talking with God.

Everyone else.

A few weeks back, I received an e-mailfrom a friend asking if we could get together. I could tell by his words that there was something specific he wanted to talk about.

We checked our schedules and through nothing short of a miracle, we both somehow found forty-fiveminutes to connect over coffee the next day. We made plans to meet up at one of my favorite coffee shops in downtown Sioux Falls.1

I arrived a few minutes early, ordered the usual—dark coffee with one Splenda—and found a table near the front that was perfect for people- watching. Twenty minutes later, my friend arrived. He apologized for not being on time. His life is busy as he tries to be seventeen different places at once. He’s getting his career off the ground. He’s a dad to two young kids. And then there’s his marriage. “I never thought it would all be so much work,” he shared with me. He wore a smile, but you could tell his life was crazy. He was overwhelmed.

Now as a pastor, I’ve heard it all. Nothing really surprises me anymore. As he updated me on the status of his life, I wondered if he was struggling with something more. Had he made a mistake? Was he having an affair? I wasn’t sure where our conversation was going or what he wanted to say or ask. We small-talked for ten minutes or so, and then he finally said it:

“Well, I’ll just get to why I wanted to get together. I feel foolish for asking this, since I’m a grown adult. I grew up going to church, and this is some- thing everyone else probably knows but me. It just looks so easy for others. But I just want to ask: How do you pray?”
 
He paused, took a breath, then quickly continued: “I should probably know this, right? But I don’t. I feel stupid, and I wasn’t sure who to ask. And again, this probably comes easy for everyone else. But again, how do you pray? Like, what do you say? Do you start with, ‘Hey, God, it’s me’? Is there a right or wrong way to pray? Can I screw this up?”

As my friend talked a million miles an hour, I was hoping he’d take another breath so he wouldn’t pass out. I could tell he was embarrassed and felt foolish, yet he was curious and wanted to know how to pray.
 
I was grateful my friend was so candid and real, and honored that he trusted me enough to ask his question. But, honestly, this wasn’t the first time I’ve been asked this question. Far from it.

-

“Everyone else” . . . they probably have prayer figured out. At least the faith- ful churchgoer does. And if no one else, the pastor does, right?

I can’t speak for others, but I know I don’t. And I’m paid to know this kind of thing.
 
When you open the Bible, it’s clear that Jesus’ followers didn’t know how to pray either. In one of his first sermons, Jesus talks about and tries to explain prayer.2
 
“When you pray,” Jesus said, “don’t do it to be seen. Don’t do it to impress others, like hypocrites often do. They might sound impressive, but they actually have it all wrong. Yup, they’ve missed the boat. Prayers do not need to be long, and there’s no need to use big words. God isn’t impressed with how we pray or the things we say. In fact, he already knows what we need, even before we start.”
 
“Instead, when you pray, just pray like this: ‘Our Father . . . ’”

Again, even followers of Jesus—the people who hung out with Jesus himself—didn’t have prayer figured out. Jesus wouldn’t have talked about it with them if they had.
 
I’ll go out on a limb and say that the majority of “everyone else” doesn’t have prayer figured out either. They have questions. They feel unqualified or in- adequate. They avoid prayer altogether. After all, how do you talk with the Creator of the entire universe without feeling a little intimidated?
 
And so, I offer this book to you. It’s a book on prayer for everyone else. It’s for the church outsider. The recognized sinner. The baptized and confirmed Christian. The faithful churchgoer. The follower of Jesus who feels like she falls short and the Pharisee Christian who thinks he doesn’t.

This book is for those who, just like my friend, have a crazy life. It’s for those who have a bunch of questions and very few answers when it comes to prayer. It’s for everyone who isn’t looking for a textbook explanation, a theological discussion, or even a definition of prayer. But instead is looking for a conversation about prayer they can understand and relate with. A conversation that meets them right where they are, not where they feel like they should be.
 
This book is for everyone else who is curious about prayer. This book is for everyone else who wants to talk with God. This book is for me. This book is for you.

THE GOD WE TALK WITH

1 Found a friend.


Tell God all that is in your heart, as one unloads one’s heart, its pleasures and its pains, to a dear friend.
— François Fénelon

Eyes closed. Hands folded. Don’t move. And be as quiet as you possibly can. At least as quiet as a five-year-old can be.
 
“Come, Lord Jesus, be our guest. Let this food to us be blessed. Amen.” “Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep. Amen.”
When I was growing up, prayer was something we did only before we ate and before we slept. Even though my mom has always been a bit of a wild driver, we never prayed before driving anywhere. Even though bullies were a legit concern for me at recess, we never prayed before going to school. We never prayed randomly throughout the day. We prayed only before eating and sleeping.

Is there something I should know about the food I’m eating?
What is wrong with this meatloaf?
This is meatloaf, right?
Is this my last meal?
Maybe monsters really are real and they come out once it’s dark?
Is someone trying to kill our family at night?
Is there a reason we pray only before we eat and  sleep?

And when we prayed, we prayed the same exact words each and every time. We recited the words having no idea of what we were really saying. Repetitive. Redundant. It’s just what we did.
 
Before bed, because my dad typically worked late, my mom would come into our room to pray with us. When we were kids, my two brothers and I shared a bedroom on the second floor of our old house.1 The three of us were busy! Busy is putting it nicely. That was until we prayed. We had to be serious when we prayed. We knew we shouldn’t talk or move. Or even breathe. Thankfully, our prayers were always short and sweet.
 
In church, however, it was a different story. And my family, the Webers, never missed church. Ever. All of us dressed in our Sunday finest. Shirts tucked in. Hair combed. Walking through the old front doors, my parents knew everyone, including the pastor. Green hymnals. Red carpet. A large wooden pulpit thing up front. An organ was off to the side. And there were wooden pews that made your rear hurt. My family sat on the right side of the room. In the same pew every week.
 
At good ol’ American Lutheran, we prayed the exact same words each Sunday. Unfortunately, there were a lot more words than in the prayers we said at home.2 We were supposed to keep our eyes closed, but I was a rebel and kept one eye open, scanning the room. People yawned. People mumbled. People checked the time. If Facebook had been around thirty years ago, I would have seen people checking that too. You get the point. It seemed like everyone couldn’t wait for the hour to pass. I couldn’t wait to talk again. I couldn’t wait to run freely again. Even at five, I knew that life is short, and I couldn’t wait to live again. Sixty minutes seemed like eternity.3

I sat with my short legs swinging back and forth under the pew, staring at the gray hairs on the neck of the person in front of me. To pass time, each week I counted every light on the ceiling of the sanctuary. I used to think, If there is a God, we have to be boring him out of his mind. I wondered if he actually listened to our prayers, because when we spoke to him, it wasn’t like we expected a response. We didn’t expect anything to happen. When we prayed, it seemed to be more about a box we checked. A hoop we jumped through to make some far-off being happy with us.
 
Who or what were we praying to? Ourselves? The thin air? I didn’t know.
 
 
From an early age, I thought all of it was strange. Praying. Church. God. Baby Jesus. All of it. Weird!
 
My questions and doubts only continued to grow. If God was truly amazing, if he was really awesome, why were we so miserable every time we talked about him? Why didn’t this supposed all-powerful God ever seem to do anything? Other than the one hour on Sunday mornings and a few quick prayers before eating and sleeping, why was he absent from our lives? Away from Sundays, it felt as if we were embarrassed to even mention God.

Even as a fourth grader, I knew that if something was awesome—a cute girl, a cool old car, next week’s football game—it impacted me. I mean, with a cute girl, I couldn’t talk straight around her. She was so cute and beautiful and awesome. She didn’t bore me at all. Just the opposite. I couldn’t stop talking about her.
 
By my freshman year of high school, I started to become more vocal about my questions. I also started what every Lutheran kid does: confirmation. A required two years of learning the basics of the Christian faith. At the end, you “confirm” your faith in God. It was two years of pure agony. Lord, help!
 
My clearest memory from confirmation is of having to pick a memory verse. I picked John 11:35, the shortest verse in the Bible—“Jesus wept”—but was told by my pastor I couldn’t pick that one. I had to choose another. Ironically, I can’t remember the other verse I chose, but I still remember John 11:35. That was the extent of what I learned in confirmation.
 
The day I got confirmed, my family showed up early at the church to save seats. For our small church, this was one of the biggest Sundays of the year. My friends and I wore white church robes. We each had a carnation pinned on just right. The church began filling up with family. My godparents came from North Dakota. Family came that I didn’t even know I had.
 
During the service, my friends and I marched to the front of the church and declared our belief in God. Following the service, we had a reception at our house. After eating cake and hugging a bunch of people I barely knew, I watched as everyone left the house. It was then that I told my parents what I had been thinking the whole time. “This is the biggest lie I have ever told. And to so many people at one time.” During the service, I had said that I believed in Jesus, but I clearly didn’t.

We stood in our living room with the reception tables still set up. The paper plates, cups, and plastic forks still needing to be picked up. I then told my parents, “I can’t wait till I get to college, when I’ll be able to make decisions on my own, because God and church will never be a part of my life again.”
 
My parents were heartbroken. Mom even cried, “Don’t say that, Adam!”
 
 
They had done everything right. They faithfully brought their kids to church every Sunday, and yet I wanted nothing to do with it.

From that moment on, my parents began looking for a church that I would connect with. They set aside their own preferences and everything they knew when it came to church. We tried every church in Clark, South Dakota,4 all six of them, and then we looked at every church outside of town. There was a tiny country church where the sermons were only eight or so minutes long. I didn’t mind that one, solely because of the shorter service.
 
After being invited a few times to a church in another town about thirty minutes away, my parents decided to try it.5 I thought they were nuts. Thirty minutes one way? That seemed absolutely crazy.

But I’ll never forget our first Sunday there. Walking up to the church, I followed behind my parents, telling them just how stupid this was. Why in the world did we just drive thirty minutes for church? Who does this?

As we walked through the large front doors, I immediately felt like a foreigner in a strange land. We were obviously the “new people,” and this church was clearly different6 from any church I had ever been to.7

It was the first nontraditional worship service I had ever attended. They weren’t speaking in tongues or handling snakes, but for this Lutheran, the people all seemed nuts. I felt like a kid at a zoo, seeing strange-looking animals for the first time. People were clapping, one person had his hands in the air, and they all looked happy. Maybe a little too happy.

Are they serving Kool-Aid? I wondered. You can’t smile in church. Stop smiling!
 
They didn’t have hymnals. My backside didn’t hurt from wooden pews. And the music didn’t make me want to cry tears of boredom either. Where was I?
 
I also noticed that they prayed differently. It was as if they were speaking with God, not at him. I had never heard people pray like that before, let alone done it myself. Ever. So strange.
 
Even though I thought they were all crazy, I also couldn’t help but notice all the cute girls in this church.8 They attended Watertown High School, which was much bigger than my own. Watertown was the big city to this small- town kid. I wasn’t into Jesus, but the Watertown girls? That was a different story.

I wasn’t counting ceiling lights in this church. Now I was counting cute girls. Knowing that going to church was an inevitable reality until I went to college, I told my parents we should come back to this church each and every week. They were thrilled that I was so interested in girls. I mean, church. Obviously.

Regardless of my reason for wanting to attend that church, God used it to slowly begin working in my life. For the first time, the pastor’s words no longer flew over my head each week. Instead they began to hit me in the heart. The pastor was doing a great job selling something I didn’t believe in. And over time, something began to change.

Each Sunday, it was like he was speaking right to me. As if he were reading my mind or something. How did he know so many of the things I had felt but never spoken?
 
I started hanging out with some of the girls and a crew of the guys, and after a while they began to invite me to their youth group on Wednesday nights. What was a young guy to do? Choose to attend only the Weber family requirement of Sunday morning church or possibly see more of these cute girls? Hormones won, and I gave in.

I remember thinking: I am actually choosing to go to church? Am I feeling okay? What am I doing?
 
That night I went to youth group hoping to meet a girl. Little did I know that I would end up finding a friend.
 
The room was packed full of kids my own age. Everyone was having a blast. They actually wanted to be there. We sang a few songs and then the youth pastor began to talk. He was right out of college and seemed normal—the first normal pastor I had ever seen. And that night, out of all things, he began to talk about prayer.

Really? Prayer? The very idea of prayer made me want to fall asleep. I had been closing my eyes and mumbling prayers my whole life; what else did I need to know about it? But what he shared about prayer that night was different from anything I had heard before.

He said, “When talking with God . . .” Wait! When talking with God . . .   ?
I thought this message was about prayer, about saying the same thing I had said my entire life before eating a meal or sleeping. I thought this was a talk on rambling through the same old words each Sunday while trying not to fall asleep. But he said talking with God?

“When talking with God, there are different ways to pray.” He continued, “Sometimes you have to sing because you’re so excited and thankful for what God has done. You can’t hold it in; you have to sing it.
 
“Sometimes when you pray, you need to get on your knees. Because you’ve made a mistake and you’re saying you’re sorry, or you’re pouring out your heart to him.

“And other times,” he said, “we can pray and talk with God just like we do with a friend. We can talk with God as if he’s sitting right next to us.”
 
It was the last thing I heard the youth pastor say that night.
 
 
You can talk with God? Like a friend? Really? The God who supposedly set the stars in place? The One who supposedly created me? You can talk with him? This is what prayer is?

It might seem like common sense to you, but to me it was foreign. This was different from anything I had ever heard about prayer. It was different from anything I had ever heard or known about God.
 
The moment I heard it, it was as if my heart leapt within me. I felt like I had found something I had unknowingly been searching for my whole life. The remainder of the night, I sat emotionless, trying to process what I was being told. We can talk with God?
 
On one occasion, Jesus was with a group of his followers and shared some things with them about who he is. He said that he is the way, the truth, and the life.9 That he’s the vine, and they are the branches.10 And then he told them, “I don’t call you servants. . . . Instead, I call you friends.”11

Now God is still God. A God so holy that angels cover their eyes when in his presence.12 And yet he makes it clear:
 
Approach me. Come near to me. Talk with me. As a friend.
 
Crazy, huh?
 
It gets better. A wise Canadian once said, “We do not make friends with
God; God makes friends with us, eh?”13 (The “eh” was my addition.)
 
Hear this: not only are we able to talk with God, but we can speak with him as we do with friends. And not only are we able to be his friend, but he initiates that friendship with us. He initiates it with you. With me.
 
Again, maybe this is no big deal to you. Maybe you’re totally secure with who you are as a human being that you haven’t ever struggled with finding friends. But I’ve always struggled with wondering whether or not I fit in. Do I belong? Am I liked? Beyond that, am I loved by others? Do people want to be my friends?
 
Instead of having to impress people. Instead of wondering if they approve of you and enjoy hanging out with you as much as you do with them. Few things feel better than hearing someone say he wants to be your friend.
 
Instead of having to say it first. God initiates the friendship. He speaks first, “I call you friend.”
Not only are we able to talk with God, but he wants to talk with us. Not only are we able to be his friend, but he wants to be ours.

That Wednesday night after youth group, halfway through the thirty-minute drive back home, I pulled my 1966 Ford Falcon Futura to the side of the road.14 I opened my car door, got out, and just stood there as the other cars passed. Even the skeptic in me couldn’t deny what I felt inside. It wasn’t hormones. Something was happening within me. My heart and mind were racing with questions.
 
We can talk with God? Like a friend? Really?

Standing outside of my car that night, in the middle of nowhere South Dakota,15 the stars were so bright, I felt like I could reach out and touch them. I wanted to talk with God but wasn’t sure where to start. My entire life, I had never prayed a prayer that wasn’t written out or memorized. With so much to say to God. With so many things bouncing around within me. The only thing I was able to say, the only thing I was able to get out:
 
“Lord, I just want to know if you’re for real.”
 
 
Looking back, it was the first time I ever truly prayed. It was the first time I had ever really talked with God.
In that moment, I just wanted to know if he was who he said he was. If he existed. If he was real. I just wanted to know if I could talk with him.
 
My first time at youth group, I was hoping to meet a girl. Instead, I met someone who would end up becoming a friend. A guy named Jesus. I didn’t know then it was a friendship that would change my life.

-

Prayer seems like it should be simple. Yet when it comes to actually praying, it often feels awkward and complicated.
 
I mean, what should I actually pray about?

What do I say?

Is there anything I should or shouldn’t say? Do I have to speak out loud? Do I need to schedule a time with God’s assistant before I can talk with him? I don’t even know where to start.
 
To make matters worse, we’ve heard about prayer for so long that we feel stupid asking about it. It’s like having to ask a person’s name after knowing her for years. Because I really should know her name by now, I can’t ask.
 
Then comes the craziness that is my life. And probably yours as well.
 
Between work, changing diapers, walking the dog, texting friends, trying to keep up with the neighbors—and the laundry—who has time to pray?
 
But the truth is, prayer is simple.
 
Kids are great at it. It’s like talking with a good friend. It’s like breathing. And what we may not know about prayer is the best part. Whether we’re in the middle of a storm, living in Crazytown, or stuck in the mud, God can’t wait to talk with me. With you.
 
Long to connect with God but don’t know how? Have a job, family, schedule, kids, deadlines, a full inbox, a million things to do, yet you’re curious about how to talk with God?
 
Do you wonder what it really looks like to pray in the midst of your life, or what to say when you don’t know how to pray?
 
I’m asking the same questions.

Let’s talk.

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KJo24 More than 1 year ago
I am on the book launch team for this book. I was so excited when I finally received my pre-ordered book in the mail. This is a book on prayer and how to pray and what to say to God. I admit that I have struggled with prayer. The author of this book has incorporated humor into his book, which helps me, as I am not a big book reader. I highly recommend this book!
Jas22 More than 1 year ago
This book was such a great read. it helped me understand the fundamentals of talking with God. I would recommend this book to others.
SarahEKoontz More than 1 year ago
I know Adam is a pastor, so I prepared myself for a book full of scripture references, diagrams, and theology. I couldn’t have been more wrong.This book is unlike any book on prayer I’ve ever read. It’s humble. Authentic. Appealing. Funny. And above all, it’s UNcomplicated. Adam's conversational tone pulled me in and his stories kept me turning the pages. By the time I was done reading, I felt so at ease (comfortable even) with the idea of talking with God. In the first section, Adam shares his personal testimony of how God went from being “the man upstairs” to being something much more tender and approachable—a friend. The first step in establishing an UNcomplicated prayer life is truly understand who we are talking with! In the second section, Adam teaches us that prayer is not complicated. It’s simple. It’s just talking with a friend. Sharing your heart with God in the midst of your crazytown life. The purpose of section 3 is to help us understand that it’s OK to be honest in our prayers. No matter what we are going through, God wants to talk with us. Adam bravely tackles a multitude of real-life situations and shows us how we can pray through them all. I don’t know about you, but I find such comfort knowing that God hears me when I pray. In the closing chapters, Adam reminds us connecting with our Creator through prayer isn’t complicated. Moments with God are possible, even in the midst of our hectic lives. Talking with God shouldn’t be scary, or intimidating, or complicated. I highly recommend Adam's book, "Talking With God." It's such an easy and enlightening read. I received an Advanced Copy from the Publisher in exchange for my honest review.
matthew whipps More than 1 year ago
One of the best books I have read on prayer! I love the honesty and the vulnerability from Adam. I will definitely keep copies of this book available to hand to anyone who may be struggling with prayer!
mmthorstet More than 1 year ago
I was so excited to get this book in the mail the other day. It is a quick and easy read. If you are an avid reader like myself, you won't want to put it down until you are done. Reading the book, I don't want it to end. I feel like I am sitting next to Adam listening to him talk. Growing up, pray was something I felt like I did before meals, before bed, at church or anytime that I needed God's help. I never thought about pray as just talking to God. This book makes me realize that prayer is just like having a conversation with a friend. Thanking him for all my blessings and asking for help at times when I need it the most.
blessed1957 More than 1 year ago
Thankful for a straightforward book on prayer. Adam speaks from the heart in a way that others can easily understand and identify with.
KJ2304 More than 1 year ago
Prayer has always intimidated me- but this book has shown me that prayer does not have to be complicated. I love how Adam makes every aspect of the book relatable to your life. This book is amazing!
cularien More than 1 year ago
Love, love, love this book - from its presentation and font choice to its content. "Talking With God" is approachable and feels much like the written version of a chat over coffee with a friend (which the author mentions doing several times!). I can tell it will be encouraging for my own walk with Christ and I can't wait to see how God works through it and me.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Talking with God is such simple application to our every day lives and giving credit to a God who desire to hear from us. Adam makes it more tangible than ever to simple talk and not fear if we sound right or are doing it right. Praise God for this man simplifying this time worn practice.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
If you struggle with prayer and don't know what to say or how to pray, this is the book for you! Buy this book, you won't regret it!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
What an encouragement to a daily prayer life... Thank you for writing this book!
James8457 More than 1 year ago
The best part of this book is that the author does not approach Prayer like he has it all figured out. It is simply an honest approach to the difficulties real people face trying to figure out how to live a Christ-centered life in the 21st century. It is biblically based but practical in its focus. A great read with great stories.
Tyler Goff More than 1 year ago
This book gives practical insight on how to incorporate prayer throughout your busy day. I've always thought that I had to wake up early and be in a quiet room all alone in order for my prayer times to be effective. This book gives permission to pray right where you are, in the busyness and craziness of life. If prayer is something you struggle with or would like to be better at, I would highly recommend this book!
Kim Taylor More than 1 year ago
5 Stars Out Of 5 I THINK I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR THIS BOOK TO COME INTO MY LIFE AND NOT EVEN REALIZING IT. March 22, 2017 Quality: 5 Value: 5 Meets Expectations: 5 Thank you Adam, because even after just the first chapter I felt like you were writing about my life. You are so comforting and I feel this sense of peace and calm knowing that I am not the only one out there feeling lost in prayer. I THINK I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR THIS BOOK TO COME INTO MY LIFE AND NOT EVEN REALIZING IT. I recommend this book to anyone that just wants to know how to understand prayer and how it can work for you in your own life. Even if you have been a part of a rigid or disconnected religious upbringing where, like Adam tells it, you pray before you eat and before you go to bed! This is the book for everyone.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I just starting reading and it is attention grabbing! A great resource to read about prayer.
mattmorrison268 More than 1 year ago
Prayer is one of those facets of life with God that I think many take for granted, but have very little understanding of. This book comes to help fill the gap between what we know we should be doing as followers of Jesus and how we can actually put it into practice. Adam Weber’s writing is personal, approachable, and hopeful, sharing his own struggles with prayer and with God in general while also helping the reader to discover simple approaches to begin to engage with God in new ways. This book is birthed out of a pastor’s heart as Adam has seen so many struggle with the issues of life and genuinely believes that Jesus is the answer to those struggles and that the path to Jesus is the path of prayer. I am excited to be able to recommend this book to those that come asking me questions about prayer and as a resource for people to grow in their walk with God.
ChrisTabone1 More than 1 year ago
This book is amazing. When it comes to the topic of pray, Adam deals with it pastorally, practically, and filled with grace and mercy. For anyone who has every wondered how to better connect with God, this is a great place to start. By reading this book you will be challenged to grow in your relationship with God, and that's a good thing.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is the book for the faith and for the doubting Thomases. If you're curious about prayer or wish that you could improve your prayer life, you should buy this book.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Ever struggle with prayer, never have the right words to say or "babble" thinking more is better, than you NEED Adam Weber's insight into prayer and how uncomplicated praying can and should be. The struggle to pray may feel real but it won't be ever again after reading Adam's book!!
Jodi_Nagel More than 1 year ago
Talking with God is truly a breath of fresh air to read! It’s light and refreshing to my soul. From the opening page I was completely engaged and left wanting to read more. The words are honest, simple yet powerful and eye opening to show how to have not only a relationship with God, but a friendship with Him. This book really is for everyone, especially me!
MLParsons More than 1 year ago
I am not an avid book reader, but I simply could not put this book down! Adam has a delightful way with words that is so honest and relatable. I have often gone through struggles with being a Christian and knowing what I should say during prayer, this book shines a whole new light on the subject. To read your Pastor went through the same struggles at one point in his life is so raw, and real. I cannot wait to get home to finish this book! It has so much to offer to everyone.
B_Larson More than 1 year ago
If you're like most people, you pretend you've got this prayer thing all figured out and inside you're constantly asking "Am I doing this right? How do I do this??" Adam's open, honest, down-to-earth style is easy to read and gets right to the heart of the issue. If you're looking for a book that breaks down the "simple" practice of prayer, then Talking With God is for you. It's encouraging, it's real, and it will take your prayer life to the next level...whether you pray continuously or have never prayed at all.
Vivian_Walker More than 1 year ago
Love this book!It is an easy read. It's funny yet very powerful. Adam is a gifted author and Pastor who's insight on prayer is amazing. This book has changed how I view prayer.
kristenmichele More than 1 year ago
I've never felt comfortable praying. Ever. And it's not because I'm shy or nervous; I'm actually one of the most outgoing people you'll meet. Speaking in public is second nature to me. Praying out loud in front of people was a completely different ball game though. I was always worried about what to say when I prayed. I was taught that we come to God with our concerns and we ask for help. But what if I sounded like an idiot in front of people? What if I didn't say it correctly? Yes, I was worried that if I didn't phrase things a specific way then God would ignore me. As a young child growing up, "praying" was always second-nature. But as I got older, I realized that it was more the idea and action of prayer that was ingrained into me; there was nothing about the "how" when it came to praying that had stuck. So instead of running the risk of embarrassment and admit that at almost 30 years old, I really didn't know how to pray, I didn't know how to pray, I just stopped praying all together. And that was the beginning of a very rough couple of years for me. This book came into my life at the exact right time. Not only was it exactly what I needed, but it is written in a way that makes me feel okay about the fact that as a grown adult I still have no idea how to pray. All of those insecurities started fading, even within the first few pages of reading. I don't know how Adam Weber did it, but he managed to write a book that not only helps me understand how to pray, but that actually makes me look forward to it every day. And that is a completely new feeling to me. I've never been at a place in my life where I've been excited to pray. But I am now. Not only is everything in this book easy to understand and follow along with. If you are like me and have ever struggled with praying and worrying about whether or not you're doing it right, this is the book for you. It is a breath of fresh air the completely alters your thinking on a topic that anyone who grew up in church has dealt with over and over. Just amazing!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Adam's ability to make complicated matters seem simple is truly his gift. He makes each person feel as though he is talking directly to them, and even greater than that, that each person listening actually matters. To demonstrate that God cares enough about each of us that he actually wants us to pray. That even I can have a discussion with the creator of the universe. Me... with all of my shortcomings... Whether you are sitting at a sermon at Embrace Church, listening online, or reading his book, Adam has a way of making you feel as though you have the capability to make a difference, to be closer to God, and to have a positive impact on the world. We are all truly blessed that Adam has taken the time and energy to write a book to demonstrate to all of us how beautiful a relationship with God can be. Whether you were raised in church, or this is your first time praying, this book will bless you with simple structural lessons to help grow in your faith.