Many have discovered the Enneagram to be a powerful tool for self-understanding, yet knowing ourselves doesn't necessarily mean we accept ourselves. Most of us tend to curate the personality of our type: leading with the traits we perceive as positive, and sidelining the traits that cause us shame.
But what if it all belonged? Rather than furthering our own fragmentation, what if we dared to make peace with the whole of who we are with bold compassion? The Enneagram of Belonging is your guide to this essential journey.
While most contemporary Enneagram books stop at the descriptions of the nine types, Enneagram teacher and The Sacred Enneagram bestselling author Chris Heuertz uncovers the missing link in our journey of living into our true self: radical self-compassion that can bring us back to belonging.
Rather than get stuck on stereotypes or curated personality, Heuertz proposes we develop an honest relationship with our type, confronting our "inner dragons," practicing self-compassion, and thereby coming to fully belong to ourselvesand, ultimately, to love itself.
In this in-depth examination of the Enneagram of Personality, you will discover:
- A fresh, compassionate way of understanding your childhood wound, which Heuertz reframes as your Kidlife Crisis
- Your unique subtype and how this colors your dominant type, plus how to work with your Enneagram instinct
- Practical insight to help you find freedom from your type's Passions and Fixations
- Your personalized path back to belonging, as you come home to your true self
- . . . and much more.
As a masterful mapmaker and trailblazer of grace, Heuertz casts a vision for how we can create a better world. The truth is how we treat ourselves is how we treat others, so let's start with compassion, and let this outflow into our relationships, communities, and world.
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About the Author
Table of Contents
Foreword Brené Brown 13
Introduction: A Compassionate Guidebook for Belonging 15
Part I Going Deeper into the Enneagram of Personality
1 Show Me a Dragon 23
Finding the Courage to Face Our Shadow
2 Transcending Type 60
The Nature of Type, the Limits of Type, and Living in True Freedom
3 Introducing the Kidlife Crisis 69
How Compassion Helps Us Reimagine the Childhood Wounds
4 Practicing Compassion toward Our Type 87
A Fresh Take on the Origins of Personality
5 The Dynamic Movement of the Enneagram 102
Wing Theories and the Meaning of the Crisscrossing Lines
Part II Bringing Our Thinking Center Back to Belonging
6 The First Truth We Tell Ourselves 127
Exploring the Holy Ideas
7 Making Peace with Our Fixations 143
The Counterforce of the Holy Ideas
Part III Bringing Our Feeling Center Back to Belonging
8 Gifts of the Heart 173
Exploring the Virtues
9 Making Peace with the Passions 192
The Counterforce of the Virtues
Part IV Bringing Our Body Center Back to Belonging
10 Body Intelligence 227
Exploring the Nine Faces of the Instincts
Conclusion: Perfectly Imperfect: The Beauty of Being Human 273
Bibliography: Cited and Recommended Resources 277
Enneagram Consultations and Workshops 285