The Songaminute Man: A Tribute to the Unbreakable Bond Between Father and Son

by Simon McDermott

Overview

A powerful and emotional memoir about family and memory from the father-son singing sensation whose heartwarming carpool karaoke video took social media by storm.

At first, Simon’s beloved father, Ted, suffered sudden bad moods and forgetfulness. Then the diagnosis: Alzheimer’s.

Ted was disappearing from the family, but Simon wanted to hold on to him. While music could bring him back temporarily—the video of the two of them singing along to Ted’s favorite song was a hit around the world—Ted could no longer tell his story.

This is that story.

The Songaminute Man is the heartbreaking, poignant tale of vanishing family memories, a celebration of Ted’s life and a moving account of caring for a truly loved father.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781488078705
Publisher:	Park Row Books
Publication date:	09/04/2018
Sold by:	HARLEQUIN
Format:	eBook
Pages:	304
File size:	23 MB
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About the Author

Simon McDermott is the son of eighty-year-old Teddy McDermott, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2013. The pair's joyful carpool karaoke videos went viral across the globe and raised over £125,000 for the Alzheimer's Society. Simon and Ted won the Pride of Britain Award for raising dementia awareness. They live in the UK.

Editorial Reviews

06/25/2018
In 2016, Ted McDermott, an aging British crooner suffering from Alzheimer’s, became an international sensation after the videos of him singing to his son posted on the internet went viral. Here, his son, Simon, a journalist, tells his father’s story in loving detail—from Ted’s working-class upbringing in a British factory town to his life as a traveling singer who never quite made it big. Though an endearing showman on stage, Ted wasn’t always easy to live with, and after he started to show signs of Alzheimer’s, he began lashing out at his wife and son, a gay man with whom Ted had a strong but combative relationship. Simon describes the physical and emotional toll it takes to care for someone with a disease they don’t know they have (“Although part of me knew Dad would forget who I was most of the time, he’d never spoken to me directly like this as though I was a stranger”). Through the videos of his dad riding in Simon’s car singing (something Simon did to calm his dad’s aggression), Simon caught glimpses of his father’s true self and created a bond with his dad he hadn’t shared since childhood. Ted’s YouTube popularity, as McDermott explains, helped other families dealing with Alzheimer’s and provided much needed exposure to a disease that many don’t understand. This is a wonderfully uplifting narrative of a son bonding with his aging father. (Sept.)

Publishers Weekly

"This is a wonderfully uplifting narrative of a son bonding with his aging father." —Publishers Weekly

"A pleasantly expressive story with two primary morals: You never know what will happen, and you can find support when things are darkest. " —Kirkus Reviews

From the Publisher

2018-06-18
Fate works in mysterious ways, as a man with a lifelong passion for singing achieves fame at the age of 80.This is a son's memoir of life with his father and of his undistinguished father's life well before the author was born. Though McDermott's father, Ted was not a successful professional singer and the author isn't a professional writer, this story has a strong, sentimental pull, as the viral response to the videos of the father's singing have attested. The elephant in the room is the Alzheimer's to which it appeared the author had lost Ted. Though the family had been late to acknowledge it, Ted had become a totally different man: dangerously belligerent, accusatory, and denying there was anything amiss. "Alzheimer's is a thief—it takes away all the light in family life and robs you of normality," writes the author. "Even the shape of the word looks like it's going to attack you. It strips you of precious moments and possible memories." The narrative also pivots on an earlier before-and-after, the 40-plus years before Ted became a father, much of which he spent as a working-class singer on various bandstands, trying his best to support himself and perhaps delay the rooted responsibilities of adulthood. A crooner amid the rise of the Beatles, he saw this phase of his life come to an end when he impregnated a casual girlfriend and belatedly married her. The marriage that produced Ted's only son was disharmonious throughout, but they somehow persevered through frequent arguments and occasional breakups. Then came the Alzheimer's and the discovery that only through music could Ted reconnect with his former self. What followed was a video that went viral, a surprisingly successful fundraising campaign for Alzheimer's support, a flurry of publicity and TV appearances by the son, a recording contract for Ted, and, now, this book.A pleasantly expressive story with two primary morals: You never know what will happen, and you can find support when things are darkest.

Kirkus Reviews