Trading Miracles for Grace: Exploring Reality and the Collateral Damages of Miracle Claims

Is God currently curing cancers, saving select people in auto accidents, providing supernatural peace and strength to certain favored people through requesting prayer? If so, how are we to reconcile that with other God-loving believers whose unselfish prayers never seem to be answered affirmatively? Are we to simply accept that God's ways are higher than our ways, and he's picking and choosing who receives special favor and those who don't, because it's all part of his preordained plans? Or...