You’ve found the man for you—and you know you belong together. But he belongs to somebody else. He says he doesn’t love her anymore…but he’s still with her. Your friends and family tell you to forget him, but how can you? True love wasn’t supposed to be like this. You must sort out your feelings, decide what to do, and protect your own emotional health—no matter what your decision. Will He Really Leave Her for Me? is the lifeline you need to explore such questions as: how can you tell if he really will leave her?; are you in this relationship for the right reasons?; how do you take care of yourself if the relationship ends?; and what are the foundations of a good marriage if he does leave his wife? With examples drawn from her private practice and a deft understanding of your feelings, licensed therapist Rona B. Subotnik helps you analyze your situation realistically and compassionately. The first self-help book of its kind, Will He Really Leave Her for Me? provides the comfort and counsel you need to chart the best course of action—with or without him.
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Table of Contents
|Part I||Understanding the Affair||1|
|Chapter 1||Living in the Shadows||3|
|Chapter 2||How Did You Get Here?||26|
|Part II||The Marital Triangle||49|
|Chapter 3||About Her||51|
|Chapter 4||About Him||74|
|Chapter 5||About You||97|
|Part III||The Affair||119|
|Chapter 6||The Stages of an Affair||121|
|Chapter 7||Assessing Your Affair||141|
|Part IV||Coping with the Decisions||165|
|Chapter 8||Continuing with the Affair||167|
|Chapter 9||You and He Marry||183|
|Chapter 10||If the Affair Ends||196|
|Appendix||Form for Assessing Your Affair||221|
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
Will He Really Leave Her For Me?: Understanding Your Situation, Making Decisions for Your Happiness based on 0 ratings. 5 reviews.
I glanced inside the book, and found lots of useful information (me being the wife who was betrayed). I wanted to try and understand how and why " she " could live with herelf after she slept with a married man...still don't think I will ever know how she thinks. I really got to see how husbands think after they have the affair , and maybe how they felt after ending it. I liked what I read.
I found this book to be very accurate in many instances. I am the victim of the infidelity (my husband is the chronic cheater) but I am mailing my copy to the other woman so she can read it.
I found this to be an interesting read, however there are far too many references from other sources. There was hardly a page that didn't quote a book or movie written by someone else. :-/
This book really opened my eyes.As being the other woman and always having unanswered questions this book really has helped me see what is going to happen in this realtionship! It was like looking in a mirror reading this book. Every chapter has played out identical in my realtionship. From the day we meet to just yeasterday. If you have questions and are dating a married man this is a MUST READ!!! really really is helpful. I was crying as i was reading this to know i was not the only one having these feelings! People may look at me like im a home recker or slut they should read this book before they judge and see the insite from all sides.