Woman's Guide on How to Approach Men in the Wild for Dating: Finally Get Rid of the Dating Apps Curse
Should women initiate contact with men? Most women would likely respond with "Absolutely not," and then assert that if a man is interested, he will always take the initiative. In their view, approaching a man equates to "chasing" him, which they believe is unrefined. Pursuing what you desire is perceived as "overstepping boundaries," and that's deemed unrefined as well. Some may even assert that they know men who have expressed, "I'm not fond of assertive women," or "I perceive her as easily available if she reaches out to me first," using those stories as evidence that it's preferable to remain reserved and wait to be sought after.
"Do not be the one to approach a man first" is a belief promoted by women who prefer to remain within their safe spaces. Thus, they linger, wait for a man, and hope for marriage one day. in the meantime, you find yourself conversing with men who pursue you, of which some typically disappear without a trace. This can lead to increased bitterness, yet you do not alter your approach; you simply continue waiting. You express false statements such as "I'm working on myself" as a justification for not being assertive.
How can you claim you're improving yourself when you resist growing and changing how you engage with new individuals? Just because a man admires you or desires you physically, doesn't imply he is superior to a man whom you had to message or converse with first. You've been conditioned to adopt a passive role in your own existence.
Common justifications include the belief that Jesus will provide a partner, using a vision board to conjure a man with all your desired traits, modifying your hairstyle, claiming that has been your obstacle, or waiting for the next crescent moon. All these tactics convey a similar message of be a Pick Me. You're not conjuring a wholesome relationship, you're not luring in love, you're merely idly hoping for effortless outcomes! The consequence of this outdated waiting strategy is that you might end up with a partner, but it's seldom one you genuinely desire; it's merely someone you compromised for because you're tired of being overlooked by your "type".
The society holds the belief that a woman should permit a man to start a relationship, and due to this belief, numerous disadvantages have arisen for the woman. One significant disadvantage is that many women find themselves with dishonest and unfaithful partners as boyfriends or husbands. This occurs because dishonest and unfaithful men are typically the ones who approach women to begin a relationship. They excel in persuading a woman since they are experienced in the dating scene and know how to manipulate and attract a woman not out of love but for sexual exploitation. As a result, those men who can be loyal and commit to one woman are not attracting women like the dishonest and unfaithful men who are perpetually eager to engage. It is preferable for a woman to take the initiative in starting a relationship. A woman has the ability to notice a man who is loyal and not a player.
I have several friends who do not pursue women actively. They are extremely loyal, compassionate, and gentle. They remain single because they are not actively engaged in dating. They are well-established. However, they do not have girlfriends. I also know some men who are skilled at dating. They are constantly on the lookout for new girlfriends and sexual encounters. They are unfaithful. And due to societal norms, they consistently attract women as partners because they approach as many women as they can.
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"Do not be the one to approach a man first" is a belief promoted by women who prefer to remain within their safe spaces. Thus, they linger, wait for a man, and hope for marriage one day. in the meantime, you find yourself conversing with men who pursue you, of which some typically disappear without a trace. This can lead to increased bitterness, yet you do not alter your approach; you simply continue waiting. You express false statements such as "I'm working on myself" as a justification for not being assertive.
How can you claim you're improving yourself when you resist growing and changing how you engage with new individuals? Just because a man admires you or desires you physically, doesn't imply he is superior to a man whom you had to message or converse with first. You've been conditioned to adopt a passive role in your own existence.
Common justifications include the belief that Jesus will provide a partner, using a vision board to conjure a man with all your desired traits, modifying your hairstyle, claiming that has been your obstacle, or waiting for the next crescent moon. All these tactics convey a similar message of be a Pick Me. You're not conjuring a wholesome relationship, you're not luring in love, you're merely idly hoping for effortless outcomes! The consequence of this outdated waiting strategy is that you might end up with a partner, but it's seldom one you genuinely desire; it's merely someone you compromised for because you're tired of being overlooked by your "type".
The society holds the belief that a woman should permit a man to start a relationship, and due to this belief, numerous disadvantages have arisen for the woman. One significant disadvantage is that many women find themselves with dishonest and unfaithful partners as boyfriends or husbands. This occurs because dishonest and unfaithful men are typically the ones who approach women to begin a relationship. They excel in persuading a woman since they are experienced in the dating scene and know how to manipulate and attract a woman not out of love but for sexual exploitation. As a result, those men who can be loyal and commit to one woman are not attracting women like the dishonest and unfaithful men who are perpetually eager to engage. It is preferable for a woman to take the initiative in starting a relationship. A woman has the ability to notice a man who is loyal and not a player.
I have several friends who do not pursue women actively. They are extremely loyal, compassionate, and gentle. They remain single because they are not actively engaged in dating. They are well-established. However, they do not have girlfriends. I also know some men who are skilled at dating. They are constantly on the lookout for new girlfriends and sexual encounters. They are unfaithful. And due to societal norms, they consistently attract women as partners because they approach as many women as they can.
Woman's Guide on How to Approach Men in the Wild for Dating: Finally Get Rid of the Dating Apps Curse
Should women initiate contact with men? Most women would likely respond with "Absolutely not," and then assert that if a man is interested, he will always take the initiative. In their view, approaching a man equates to "chasing" him, which they believe is unrefined. Pursuing what you desire is perceived as "overstepping boundaries," and that's deemed unrefined as well. Some may even assert that they know men who have expressed, "I'm not fond of assertive women," or "I perceive her as easily available if she reaches out to me first," using those stories as evidence that it's preferable to remain reserved and wait to be sought after.
"Do not be the one to approach a man first" is a belief promoted by women who prefer to remain within their safe spaces. Thus, they linger, wait for a man, and hope for marriage one day. in the meantime, you find yourself conversing with men who pursue you, of which some typically disappear without a trace. This can lead to increased bitterness, yet you do not alter your approach; you simply continue waiting. You express false statements such as "I'm working on myself" as a justification for not being assertive.
How can you claim you're improving yourself when you resist growing and changing how you engage with new individuals? Just because a man admires you or desires you physically, doesn't imply he is superior to a man whom you had to message or converse with first. You've been conditioned to adopt a passive role in your own existence.
Common justifications include the belief that Jesus will provide a partner, using a vision board to conjure a man with all your desired traits, modifying your hairstyle, claiming that has been your obstacle, or waiting for the next crescent moon. All these tactics convey a similar message of be a Pick Me. You're not conjuring a wholesome relationship, you're not luring in love, you're merely idly hoping for effortless outcomes! The consequence of this outdated waiting strategy is that you might end up with a partner, but it's seldom one you genuinely desire; it's merely someone you compromised for because you're tired of being overlooked by your "type".
The society holds the belief that a woman should permit a man to start a relationship, and due to this belief, numerous disadvantages have arisen for the woman. One significant disadvantage is that many women find themselves with dishonest and unfaithful partners as boyfriends or husbands. This occurs because dishonest and unfaithful men are typically the ones who approach women to begin a relationship. They excel in persuading a woman since they are experienced in the dating scene and know how to manipulate and attract a woman not out of love but for sexual exploitation. As a result, those men who can be loyal and commit to one woman are not attracting women like the dishonest and unfaithful men who are perpetually eager to engage. It is preferable for a woman to take the initiative in starting a relationship. A woman has the ability to notice a man who is loyal and not a player.
I have several friends who do not pursue women actively. They are extremely loyal, compassionate, and gentle. They remain single because they are not actively engaged in dating. They are well-established. However, they do not have girlfriends. I also know some men who are skilled at dating. They are constantly on the lookout for new girlfriends and sexual encounters. They are unfaithful. And due to societal norms, they consistently attract women as partners because they approach as many women as they can.
"Do not be the one to approach a man first" is a belief promoted by women who prefer to remain within their safe spaces. Thus, they linger, wait for a man, and hope for marriage one day. in the meantime, you find yourself conversing with men who pursue you, of which some typically disappear without a trace. This can lead to increased bitterness, yet you do not alter your approach; you simply continue waiting. You express false statements such as "I'm working on myself" as a justification for not being assertive.
How can you claim you're improving yourself when you resist growing and changing how you engage with new individuals? Just because a man admires you or desires you physically, doesn't imply he is superior to a man whom you had to message or converse with first. You've been conditioned to adopt a passive role in your own existence.
Common justifications include the belief that Jesus will provide a partner, using a vision board to conjure a man with all your desired traits, modifying your hairstyle, claiming that has been your obstacle, or waiting for the next crescent moon. All these tactics convey a similar message of be a Pick Me. You're not conjuring a wholesome relationship, you're not luring in love, you're merely idly hoping for effortless outcomes! The consequence of this outdated waiting strategy is that you might end up with a partner, but it's seldom one you genuinely desire; it's merely someone you compromised for because you're tired of being overlooked by your "type".
The society holds the belief that a woman should permit a man to start a relationship, and due to this belief, numerous disadvantages have arisen for the woman. One significant disadvantage is that many women find themselves with dishonest and unfaithful partners as boyfriends or husbands. This occurs because dishonest and unfaithful men are typically the ones who approach women to begin a relationship. They excel in persuading a woman since they are experienced in the dating scene and know how to manipulate and attract a woman not out of love but for sexual exploitation. As a result, those men who can be loyal and commit to one woman are not attracting women like the dishonest and unfaithful men who are perpetually eager to engage. It is preferable for a woman to take the initiative in starting a relationship. A woman has the ability to notice a man who is loyal and not a player.
I have several friends who do not pursue women actively. They are extremely loyal, compassionate, and gentle. They remain single because they are not actively engaged in dating. They are well-established. However, they do not have girlfriends. I also know some men who are skilled at dating. They are constantly on the lookout for new girlfriends and sexual encounters. They are unfaithful. And due to societal norms, they consistently attract women as partners because they approach as many women as they can.
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| BN ID: | 2940184781907 |
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| Publisher: | Breakout Tools |
| Publication date: | 01/22/2025 |
| Sold by: | Barnes & Noble |
| Format: | eBook |
| File size: | 2 MB |
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