Find Your Mantra: Inspire and Empower Your Life with 75 Positive Affirmations

Find Your Mantra: Inspire and Empower Your Life with 75 Positive Affirmations

by Aysel Gunar

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Overview

Be mindful and present in your daily life with these 75 uplifting messages, organized by theme, from founder of MantraBand Aysel Gunar.

Find Your Mantra provides an inspiring introduction to the importance of positive, meaningful mantras in your life.

Whether your focus is peace, love, happiness, strength, or your journey—you'll find the perfect mantra for every day of your life. Brought to life with beautiful illustrations and design, find inspiration through positive messages like:
  • Be Present: Be present, free of past and future, and enjoy this moment, that is filled with love, awareness, peace, and joy.
  • Love and Light: May love and light always find you, and may you be a vessel of love and light. Let these powerful forces pull you away from your fears and open you to the understanding of oneness.
  • Choose Joy: A phrase so simple, yet so powerful that it changes one's outlook on life. It helps us realize the power of our minds and the power of our attitude. A simple step in the path to a more positive life and a constant reminder to choose happiness.
  • Blessed: You are greatly blessed and deeply loved. Count your blessings, not your troubles. I am awake, I am alive, I am blessed.

By reading these affirmations—one a day, several at a time, or just by opening the book at random—you're taking the first step toward building a more rewarding life.

The Live Well series from Rock Point invites you to create a life you love through multiple acts of self-discovery and reinvention. These encouraging gift books touch on fun yet hardworking self-improvement strategies, whether it’s learning to value progress over perfection, taking time to meditate and slow down to literally smell the roses, or finding time to show gratitude and develop a personal mantra. From learning how to obtain more restful sleep and creating a healthy work/life balance to developing personal style and your own happy place, the Live Well series encourages you to live your best life.
 
Other titles in the series include: Progress Over Perfection; Find Your Flow; Be Happy; Seeking Slow; Finding Gratitude; Eff This! Meditation; The Joy of Forest Bathing; It Had to be You; Men’s Society; Genius Jokes; The Calm and Cozy Book of Sleep; Beating Burnout; Ayurveda for Life; Choose Happy; and You Got This.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781631066221
Publisher: Rock Point
Publication date: 09/10/2019
Series: Live Well Series
Pages: 144
Sales rank: 102,288
Product dimensions: 5.80(w) x 8.10(h) x 0.85(d)

About the Author

Aysel Gunar is on a mission to inspire and empower with positive messages; because positive thinking and mindfulness lead to a better life. That's what we want for ourselves and everyone else on this planet. She does this by promoting a lifestyle of optimism, positivity, and mindfulness. She is the author of Find Your Mantra and founder of MantraBand, jewelry that is made to inspire. These positive affirmations are the reminders to choose happiness, to live the life you love, and be present in every moment.

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CHAPTER 1

Peace

Everything will be alright.

Breathe, let go, and trust that everything always unfolds perfectly and just as you need it to. Focus on the present moment and live in the now. Know that everything will be alright.

Mantra Action:

The dark is greedy, but you are bright. During meditations (or just when times are tough) flutter the eyelids closed. Elongate your neck and tilt your chin ever so slightly toward the sky. Find the sun in the dark. Everything will be alright.

Mantra Benefit:

Tough times are sticky and pervasive. Once you have peace in your heart, you can seek refuge there. The act of lifting your chin opens your heart and allows in more light.

Gratitude.

The Buddha thought that desire was the root of all suffering. By that logic, wouldn't gratitude then be the root of all happiness and peace? Once we find contentment and joy in the smallest of things, the world transforms into a garden of possibility. Be thankful and share your gratitude with those around you. Gratitude is a gift that keeps giving. Count your blessings and you'll find that they are numerous. Express gratitude and live by it, because gratitude brings peace and happiness and turns what you have into enough. Know that you will have more of what you are grateful for.

Mantra Action:

On your birthday, make a list of people, experiences, feelings, relationships, and anything else you can think of that you are thankful for — as many as the age you're turning. Making this an annual, simple exercise will ensure that not a year goes by when you don't sit down and appreciate all the things in life that bring you joy. If compiling a year's worth of thanks into one day seems daunting, start small by gratitude journaling from day to day or even week to week.

Mantra Benefit:

When you look at each passing year with an eye for gratitude, you'll get better and better at it until the number of things you're thankful for greatly outnumbers the years that you've been on this beautiful earth.

MIND OVER MATTER.

The brain is a beautiful thing. It's deeply complex and intricate with so many neural pathways that it's hard to know exactly which electrical impulses are being fired from where. Remember that you are the master of your mind. Know that you can and will accomplish all that you set out to do if you just believe that you can do it.

Mantra Action:

Changing your life comes from changing your thoughts. Set the pace for your new brain space. While you're falling asleep each night, imagine what the best possible version of yourself will do tomorrow. Send affirmations into your dreams filled with all of the things that you are capable of and deserve. Reaffirm your worth in the mirror the following morning to set your mood for the day. You are strong. You are capable. Your life will be filled with all of the joy, delight, and fulfilment that you wish for yourself.

Mantra Effect:

Eventually you'll start believing that all the wonderful things about you are real. Confidence is the key to success, and you just need to unlock it.

NO REGRETS

You live and learn. You grow and move on. Focus on the choices you make today. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Live on purpose, be yourself, and be kind. Take chances, make mistakes, and learn from them. Or make mistakes to be really certain that that a particular path is not meant for you. No great growth has ever come from quietly working in the secure margins. Follow your dreams. Say, "Yes!" and not "Yeah, but ..." Let yourself wildly color outside the lines. Your life is a beautiful masterpiece. It is not meant to be quelled.

Mantra Action:

Remove the word "mistake" from your vocabulary. You no longer mess up; you only open yourself up to opportunities for learning and growth. You only participate in "happy accidents." Welcome the wrong because from the foulest compost comes the most beautiful flowers.

Mantra Benefit:

The life you lead will not be without a touch of suffering, but if you know in your heart of hearts that the suffering was worth the "yes!" you committed to, you will no longer experience the "what ifs?" that accompany an unfulfilled life.

All I need is within me.

* * *

You are a seed. A well. A house. You are everything you are searching for. You have all you need to create what you want, to do what you want, and to be the best version of yourself.

Mantra Action:

Remember that whatever the circumstances are, all you need to get through is inside of you. Have courage, face your fears, persevere. There is nothing you cannot do if you only believe and act upon it. You're already complete, but don't be afraid to push the boundaries of your existence.

Mantra Benefit:

When you stop seeking fulfillment and meaning from outside of yourself, you'll be able to reach new magnificent heights. When you know that you have all it takes to make it happen, you will be more confident in your decisions and actions. With less time spent searching for what you need, you'll have the mental capacity to find new acts that bring more delight into your life.

Everything happens for a reason.

* * *

The purpose may be hidden, but deep in your heart you know this is the path you should be on right now. Every single step is carrying you along your journey with lessons to learn, to grow, and to become who you are meant to be.

Mantra Action:

Pick a book you haven't read. Flip to a page in the middle and read a paragraph. Does it make sense? Perhaps, but it is likely out of context. Each experience (beautiful or otherwise) is a single smudge on the impressionist painting that is your life. You won't be able to see the final outcome until it's done.

Mantra Benefit:

Peace can be found when you stop trying to control every aspect of your life. If you believe, truly believe, that everything happens for a reason, being fluid and adaptable will become second nature.

LIVE MORE, WORRY LESS.

Why worry? When you worry about something, you suffer it twice. Live more mindfully, fearlessly, and with an open heart. Be present in this moment. Practice gratitude and trust the journey that it leads you on. Let your "what ifs" be positive rather than the worst possible outcome. Enjoy the experience and only problem-solve when there's an actual problem.

Mantra Action:

An effective meditation for calming persistent fretting is to inhale the word "let" and exhale the word "go." Sit with this meditation. Nurse it for a while if you're prone to worry. It'll ease the current crop of concerns and calm new ones before they take root.

Mantra Benefit:

Using this meditation over time, you'll feel your shoulders relax down your back. Rolling back your shoulders opens your heart, which will in turn lead you toward the future, instead of staying trapped and guarded behind the wall of your rib cage.

Peace. Love. Happiness.

Remember that the real source of peace, love, and happiness is within you. Bring peace, give love, give back, and you will experience more peace, love, and happiness in your life.

Mantra Action:

Peace in your life comes from peace of mind. Meditate on the things that bring a sense of calm and meaning to your life. Love is done best when you embrace an unconditional love for yourself. Find little ways to love yourself every day, so as not to lose the pieces of you that you cherish most. Happiness can be found in the most mundane places. Practice self-care, make more jokes, drink water, start each day with a made bed or a clean sink, go out, stay in, and do whatever little things make you smile, however bizarre, quirky, or normal they may seem.

Mantra Benefit:

Creating a sense of calm and joy from within means that you won't have to rely on any outside influences to make each day a great one. When you tap that well of peace, love, and happiness at the core of yourself, you can bring it to the people, places, and work around you that you treasure.

SMILE, BREATHE AND GO SLOWLY

These simple words are the foundation of a happy, calm, and fulfilled existence. Remember to focus on one thing at a time and give each and every moment your all. Stay calm, look on the bright side, and keep going. Because it's all about the journey, not the destination. Move at your own pace and don't compare your journey to that of others.

Mantra Action:

Leave an hour before you're expected somewhere and explore the area. Meditation occurs in quiet places where your brain has space to relax. Arrive in a space as your best self and enjoy this new experience with a fresh set of eyes.

Mantra Benefit:

Arriving early might seem counterintuitive to "going slow," but when you no longer have the stress of arriving at your next engagement on time, you'll find it easier to explore and find the beauty in the world around you.

Be the change.

* * *

Let these words be a reminder that you have the power to transform not only your own experience, but also that of those around you. Throw yourself into it. Positive change is contagious and will catch sparks in the right environments.

Mantra Action:

Always remember to be the change that you wish to see in the world and in your life. When a butterfly enters its chrysalis, it does not simply morph into a butterfly but it becomes liquid, shedding the vestiges of its former life entirely so that it can transform into its true body. Be this change; be something so entire and complete that you can't remember how gravity confined you to the ground for so long.

Mantra Benefit:

Change is the only constant. Learn to embrace change and you'll be brave enough to take a step to make a change when necessary.

Patience.

* * *

Everything worthwhile takes time to reach fruition. Practice patience with others, and with yourself. Be kind with your time. Meet others where they are and not where you think they should be. Have realistic expectations of their capabilities and your own, and do not rush the process. There is nothing that patience, time, and empathy can't resolve.

Mantra Action:

Find a comfortable seat and settle in for a long meditation. As time passes, begin to notice if parts of your stance are uncomfortable. Do not adjust. As your foot falls asleep or your elbow twitches, sit in your discomfort and take deep breaths until the feeling passes.

Mantra Benefit:

When you realize that discomfort is fleeting, you will be more comfortable in difficult situations that will help you grow as a person. Embrace the moment of discomfort and know that it will not last forever.

Let it go.

There it is. You can feel it. You know exactly what it is you're supposed to let go. Perhaps it is a slender thread or even a whole closet full of grievances that will never reach a resolution. Cut the strand, release the tension, and let it go — either because they are too small to effectively grasp and untangle or too big to ever tackle. Do not nurse these petty grievances with gravitas. Holding on to them will only bring you down. Let it go, and you'll find that you're the one who is free.

Mantra Action:

During your meditation, clench your hands into tight fists on the inhale. Clench your muscles. Shrug your shoulders toward your ears. Scrunch your face into pin-point features. Then on the exhale, relax it all. Roll your shoulders down your back. Open your chest. Release the tongue from the roof of your mouth. Unfurl your fingers and let whatever you're hung up on fall to the floor.

Mantra Benefit:

Your brain will follow your physical body if you let it. When you tell your body to relax, it'll send cues to your brain to release the tension as well.

BE STILL AND KNOW.

Quiet truths are hard to discover in loud spaces and with thoughts. Be still and patient with yourself and with everything that life may bring, because being still enables you to know. Know that there is a higher power that is always there for you. I am still, therefore I know that all is well with my soul.

Mantra Action:

Take time to be still, look within, and listen. Allow things to happen in their own time. Stillness is the path to serenity. Be still, breathe, let go, and trust.

Mantra Benefit:

Belief in brighter times is what guides us through the dark.

YOU GOT THIS.

Believe in yourself. Know that you are strong enough to get through anything. You are the only you to ever exist and you're doing a stellar job. Remember that challenges are part of the story. Keep going and never give up. You got this!

Mantra Action:

Practice good posture. Stack the vertebrae of your spine on top of one another and hold your head high as if a string is pulling it towards the sun. Take a power pose, Wonder Woman-style, with your hands on your hips and your feet firmly planted hip distance apart. Let the channels of energy flow through you and don't dump into your joints.

Mantra Benefit:

When you let the channels of energy flow through you, you'll find that confidence will follow. Believe that you are strong, and you'll know that you can tackle whatever life throws at you.

Be here, now.

Happiness and calm can be found when you're present in this moment.

Mantra Action:

Ground yourself in the concrete truth of your body. Scan all the synapses in your body and explore the feeling. Start at the crown of your head, move down to your eyelids, cheeks, nose, earlobes, throat, collar bones, shoulders, elbows, knuckles, fingertips. Trace the line of feelings down each rib. How do your hips sit? Are they open or closed? Is there a tingling in your knees? Where does the heat of your limbs overlap? Scan from the top of your head to the tips of your toes, then go back up again to fully ground yourself into your body once more.

Mantra Benefit:

In those moments when your mind wants to be in one place but your heart needs to be in another, bring yourself back to the present moment where you'll find true peace and happiness.

CHAPTER 2

Love

REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE

Remember that the sky is blue above the clouds. Remember that the seeds you sow in the fall will break through the frosty ground in the spring. Remember that you are not your struggles or your circumstances. Remember that everything you seek is already within you. You are love, you are light, you are peace, you are joy. You're more than a single interaction or decision. You are a fully-realized person. You are bigger than your body, bigger than your thoughts, your past, and your future. Remember who you are.

Mantra Action:

Meditation is the sometimes tedious process of bringing a playful and wandering mind back to a place of stillness. This function of guiding your thoughts to a quiet place will strengthen your mind and ability to think.

Mantra Benefit: A strong mind is a key component to carving out a spot for yourself. By doing so, you will encourage a more self-aware life.

INFINITE LOVE

Love is the only universal truth. Love is simple. Tt needs no explanation. Love is unconditional, complete, and free. Love is kindness. Love is compassion. Love is strength that can move mountains. Let this be a reminder that you are loved wholly, truly, infinitely.

Mantra Action:

Unblinking, effervescent, uplifting, and strong, love wants to be shared. Love is infinite and it yearns to be let out. Vent your love to all that lives around you.

Mantra Benefit:

A racing heart. An illuminated brain. Dopamine. Serotonin. Who doesn't love love? Who can truly be whom they're meant to be without love? It is water in the soil, air in our lungs, songs in our ears. Love is meant to be everywhere.

Family is forever.

Family is a circle of strength, love, and support. Whether it's the family you've chosen or the family you've been given, family is love and memories and your anchor for strength. Family is forever, always, no matter what.

Mantra Action:

Talk to your family. Hear their voices. Connect to your past and let it be your present. Tell them often and loudly that you love them.

Mantra Benefit:

By strengthening these bonds, you're strengthening yourself. By loving the people who raised you, you're finding love in yourself.

Be the light.

* * *

Bright eyes. Flashing grins. Sparkling personalities. Light wants to burst free from us and out into the world if we choose to nurture it. Tiny fires burn in all our hearts, and when we choose to let ourselves glow, we grow.

Mantra Action:

Shine the light that is within you. Be kind, choose joy, give love. Be the light in your own life, and in the life of others.

Mantra Benefit:

Your light will seek out the light in the world around you.

I am.

* * *

These are the most powerful two words, because what you put after them shapes your reality. I am strong, I am brave, I am beautiful, I am hopeful, I am smart, I am hilarious, I am not alone, I am grateful, I am happy, I am enough, I am love, I am worthy. I am.

Mantra Action:

Write it down and say it out loud. You are who you say you are. "I am who I say I am." By saying and writing down your affirmations, you train your mind to believe them.

Mantra Benefit:

Your words and affirmations become your reality. Only say things that you want to be realized in your life.

Choose love.

In every moment of your life, you have the choice to come from love or fear. Choose love over fear, trust in the flow of life, and let love be your guide.

(Continues…)


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Table of Contents

Introduction,
Peace,
Love,
Happiness,
Strength,
Journey,
About the Author,

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