Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve

Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve

by Matthew Hussey

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Overview

Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve by Matthew Hussey

New York Times bestseller

In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—Cosmopolitan columnist, Today show dating expert, motivational speaker, relationship guru, and matchmaker—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.

Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do.

Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.

From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy:  Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780062241757
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date: 02/11/2014
Edition description: Reprint
Pages: 272
Sales rank: 32,077
Product dimensions: 10.50(w) x 7.00(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Matthew Hussey is a relationship coach and the founder of the Get the Guy brand, which connects with thousands of women through live seminars and digital programs. He regularly offers relationship advice on the Today show and on the MTV series Plain Jane. He splits his time between London and Los Angeles.

Table of Contents

Introduction xi

Part 1 Find the Guy

1 Put the Odds in Your Favor 3

2 Being a Woman of High Value 19

3 Get a Social Life That Serves Your Love Life 30

4 The Mindset of the Chooser 46

5 The Traits of Desirable Women 58

6 The White Handkerchief Approach 67

7 From Great Conversation to First Date 84

8 The Joy of Text 94

9 A Word About Online Dating 99

Part 2 Get the Guy

10 The Ultimate Formula for Attraction 111

11 A Word About Insecurity 123

12 The Art of Creating the Great Date 130

13 The Sex Talk (Part I) 143

14 Stuck in the Friend Trap 153

15 Why Hasn't He Called? 168

16 Premature Obligation 180

Part 3 Keep the Guy

17 How to Be the Woman of His Dreams 187

18 Is He Mr. Right? 198

19 What Guys Really Think About the C-Word 207

20 The Sex Talk (Part II) 216

21 If You Want Him to Commit 226

22 Love for Life 240

Acknowledgments 245

What People are Saying About This

Eva Longoria

“Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world. His incredible understanding of love and relationships makes him the absolute best love guru! This book is a necessary tool for anyone looking for love.”

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Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve 4.6 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 20 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is the relationship bible. It helps you find the guy, get the guy, and keep the guy. Ladies, love is pricless, is it not? This book could cost 10 times more than it does, and it would still be worth every penny. I repeat: this is the relationship bible. Enough said. Period.
GeorgiaPatti More than 1 year ago
Wonderful--a great practical source for young ladies! I had purchased one for two of my granddaughters, and my great-niece also wanted a copy. Five stars for telling it like it is, and from the male point of view.
IfYouSeeDan More than 1 year ago
Amazing book and so is Matthew. I first noticed his videos on YouTube (I'm from Denmark so I haven't really heard of this book before) and it caught me. This is a must-read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The book is amazing. The facts in the book are so true. I am glad I picked this book up.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I was pleasantly surprised in how much I could relate to this book. Even though it's titled "Get The Guy", by no means is it just for girls who are single and want to learn how to find a great guy and have a relationship. Matthew's advice can be appreciated no matter what your relationship status is! (I've been in a committed relationship for 2.5 years; I found that the lessons and tips that he gives are extremely useful for my own relationship.) The book is divided into 3 sections: find the guy, get the guy, keep the guy. Although it's divided into those different stages, the themes remained the same throughout: be a woman of high value, know your worth, be the best person that you can be, know what you want from a relationship (and life!) With those in minds, the dating scene (or in my case, maintaining a strong committed relationship with my bf) will be easy! I read the book in about 5 days, and my mentality has really changed in terms of my own relationship. For that alone, the book was worth it. I recommend this book to any woman who not only wants to find a great guy and have a successful relationship, but more importantly, who wants to learn how to be the best version of yourself.
smeehs More than 1 year ago
I loved this book. This was the first time I read this kind of a book (self-help/relationship). I laughed throughout it because so many things mentioned in the book are true. The book is outlined in a good way, which made it easy for me to read and follow.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Practical and purposeful advice that helps us get a glimpse into the male mind. Done with humor and kindness. Thank you Matthew-you are a Gem!!!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This is exactly what I've been looking for.
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Fabulous, loved it! Makes total sense!!!
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I enjoyed this book. Very insightful
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