Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships
Explore relationship patterns to shape a sturdier self, improve relationships, and gain a refreshing new outlook on life's challenges with this bestselling book!

To be human is to be in relationships. We can't survive without them but it's in relationships that we can so easily get unravelled. Some relationships just seem to do us in. Either we feel like we lose ourselves or feel burnt out from futile efforts to make things right for another. In our relationships we can experience the very best of ourselves and the very worst.

The message of Growing Yourself Up is that you can't separate understanding the individual from understanding relationships. All of life's relationships are integral to increasing self—awareness and maturity. And it's not necessarily the comfortable relationships that promote personal growth. In this 2nd edition of the bestselling book, Jenny examines how to help others without fostering dependency, and how to determine what kind of help you or others want from therapists. This is in response to the many lay and professional people who have found this book valuable personally and want to know how to help others grow.

Drawing from Bowen family systems theory, the book takes you on a journey through each stage of life to see predictable patterns of relationships and to show how to use this knowledge to make purposeful adjustments in yourself; as well as lending a mature helping hand to others. The result is a sturdier self, sturdier relationships and a refreshing new way to view life's challenges and opportunities.

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Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships
Explore relationship patterns to shape a sturdier self, improve relationships, and gain a refreshing new outlook on life's challenges with this bestselling book!

To be human is to be in relationships. We can't survive without them but it's in relationships that we can so easily get unravelled. Some relationships just seem to do us in. Either we feel like we lose ourselves or feel burnt out from futile efforts to make things right for another. In our relationships we can experience the very best of ourselves and the very worst.

The message of Growing Yourself Up is that you can't separate understanding the individual from understanding relationships. All of life's relationships are integral to increasing self—awareness and maturity. And it's not necessarily the comfortable relationships that promote personal growth. In this 2nd edition of the bestselling book, Jenny examines how to help others without fostering dependency, and how to determine what kind of help you or others want from therapists. This is in response to the many lay and professional people who have found this book valuable personally and want to know how to help others grow.

Drawing from Bowen family systems theory, the book takes you on a journey through each stage of life to see predictable patterns of relationships and to show how to use this knowledge to make purposeful adjustments in yourself; as well as lending a mature helping hand to others. The result is a sturdier self, sturdier relationships and a refreshing new way to view life's challenges and opportunities.

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Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships

Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships

by Jenny Brown
Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships

Growing Yourself Up, 2nd Edition: How to bring your best to all of life's relationships

by Jenny Brown

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Explore relationship patterns to shape a sturdier self, improve relationships, and gain a refreshing new outlook on life's challenges with this bestselling book!

To be human is to be in relationships. We can't survive without them but it's in relationships that we can so easily get unravelled. Some relationships just seem to do us in. Either we feel like we lose ourselves or feel burnt out from futile efforts to make things right for another. In our relationships we can experience the very best of ourselves and the very worst.

The message of Growing Yourself Up is that you can't separate understanding the individual from understanding relationships. All of life's relationships are integral to increasing self—awareness and maturity. And it's not necessarily the comfortable relationships that promote personal growth. In this 2nd edition of the bestselling book, Jenny examines how to help others without fostering dependency, and how to determine what kind of help you or others want from therapists. This is in response to the many lay and professional people who have found this book valuable personally and want to know how to help others grow.

Drawing from Bowen family systems theory, the book takes you on a journey through each stage of life to see predictable patterns of relationships and to show how to use this knowledge to make purposeful adjustments in yourself; as well as lending a mature helping hand to others. The result is a sturdier self, sturdier relationships and a refreshing new way to view life's challenges and opportunities.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781925335194
Publisher: Exisle Publishing
Publication date: 11/07/2017
Edition description: Revised
Pages: 296
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 9.10(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Jenny Brown, PhD, is founder and executive director of the Family Systems Institute and Family Systems Practice in Sydney, Australia, where she has a counselling practice and trains mental health professionals and organizations.

Table of Contents

Introduction

Who's willing to work at growing up?

Part 1: Understanding the relationship foundations of adult maturity

1. Becoming a self in our relationships

2. Real maturity or pretend maturity 

3. Family ties that bind

Part 2: Maturity for the first half of adult life

4. Leaving home and growing up

5. The single young adult

6. How marriage can grow people

7. Sex for grown—ups

8. Grown—up parenting

Part 3: Being a grown—up beyond family

9. Off to work we go

10. Developing mature beliefs 

Part 4: Nurturing maturity in the face of set backs

11. Separation and divorce

12. Symptoms and setbacks

Part 5: Maturity enhancement in the second half of life

13. Midlife

14. Ageing well

15. Old age and facing death

Part 6: Broadening the focus

16. The grown—up helper

17. Society and self

Epilogue

Appendix 1: Summary questions for reflection

Appendix 2: Mature connection and separateness

Appendix 3: What are guiding principles?

Appendix 4: Differentiation of self as a continuum

Appendix 5: How to construct your family diagram

Appendix 6: An overview of human development across the lifespan from a Bowen family systems perspective

Appendix 7: Some Biblical reflections on relationships

Notes

Bibliography and further reading

Acknowledgements

Index

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