One of the most important tools for navigating life successfully is the ability to look within and see your part in it. Adam Foley and Elisa Romeo have written a book that truly embodies the feeling of being with them. They are loving, kind, patient, honest, and connected — connected not only to each other but to themselves. This book beautifully guides you through the process of cultivating that skill for yourself through stories, examples, and powerful prompts. Your life is waiting for you to see what Adam and Elisa are showing you in this book. Joy, peace, and growth are waiting on the other side.”
— Danica Patrick, professional race car driver, author of Pretty Intense, and host of the Pretty Intense Podcast
“Holy Love meets us on the bridge between our hearts. And it provides us with the tools we will need to remain there, deepening together over time. Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley understand something that few humans do: They understand that we are not just here together to keep each other company. We are here together to show each other God. The portal is each other. I can think of no greater teaching.”
— Jeff Brown, author of An Uncommon Bond and Grounded Spirituality
“Holy Love will shift the consciousness that lives in your heart! It is a powerful and inspiring reminder that our relationships are sacred and so precious. Through practical, digestible, and enlightening stories and exercises, Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley show us how to turn intimacy into a fulfilling spiritual practice. If you are looking for real strategies for daily living, but also profound possibilities, this book is for you.”
— Melissa Ambrosini, podcaster, speaker, and bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, Open Wide, and Comparisonitis
“Close, intimate relationship might be said to be the Asclepion healing temple of our time. It is no secret that when we take the risk to allow another to matter to us, we open a portal for our entire unlived life to pour through. Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley offer an alchemical road map and modern way of Soul-tending that uses relationship as the path, shining a warm, compassionate, and insightful light into the mysteries of the heart.”
— Matt Licata, PhD, author of A Healing Space: Befriending Ourselves in Difficult Times
“Holy Love is a bone fide curriculum for those who aspire to move beyond becoming worthy of love to becoming love itself. The authors deftly explore the multidimensionality of the relationships among Soul, ego, and inner child in both a fluidity of spiritual languaging and a savvy psychological vocabulary. The generous inquiries, journaling exercises, and meditations offer a sophisticated alchemy of transformative experiences. The personal stories wonderfully illuminate the entire process. A gem!”
— Linda Graham, MFT, author of Resilience: Powerful Practices for Bouncing Back from Disappointment, Difficulty, and Even Disaster
“In this beautiful and powerful book, Elisa Romeo and Adam Foley remind us that when we keep our hearts open to each other, we are also opening to the Soul in each other. Through utilizing relationship as the foundation for spiritual growth, they show that love is truly spiritual in nature. With curiosity, profound insight, and humor, this book provides the practical tools and insight to navigate the ups and downs of daily relating with grace, and offers the possibility to emerge knowing a Soulful and fulfilling love.”
— Claire Bidwell Smith, author of Anxiety: The Missing Stage of Grief
“A must-read for anyone sent to this earth to love. So, all of us. I wish this book had been given to me when they were handing out condoms in sex ed. Seriously, it’s transformation wisdom we all need for fulfilling relationships.”
— Emma Mildon, bestselling author of The Soul Searcher’s Handbook and Evolution of Goddess
“Whether it’s our relationships as best friends and business partners or the relationships we have with our significant others, we are reminded every day how much our spiritual growth happens in relationship. Holy Love is meeting the world at the most Divine time. Has there ever been a more potent time to revolutionize the way we love and connect with ourselves and others?”
— Lindsey Simcik and Krista Williams, cohosts of the Almost 30 podcast
“Love is what we crave and also what so many of us fear or never had modeled in healthy ways by our caregivers. Holy Love gently and beautifully guides you toward the true connection you deserve. What a wise, honest, kind book.”
— Jennifer Louden, author of The Life Organizer and Why Bother?: Discover the Desire for What’s Next
“Holy Love dispels the myth that the spiritual path must be a solo journey. The world is ready to move on from the pseudo-enlightened alone-on-a-mountaintop model of spirituality. If you want to truly grow, apply your practice to your relationships.”
— Jonas Elrod, writer/director of Wake Up and In Deep Shift
“Holy Love taps into the deepest truth of all relationships: underneath all the roles, the widest aspect of the relationship is Soul to Soul. This larger perspective, when integrated into relationships, expands the nature of all interactions and uplifts us, our relationships, and our world. Both the tangible and intangible ramifications of seeing ourselves and others as Souls are immeasurable, and Holy Love is a map to help you get there.”
— Annie Burnside, author of Soul to Soul Parenting and From Role to Soul
“Love. It’s right up there with air, food, and water as one of our most vital ingredients for existence. And yet it is often misunderstood as well as difficult to find and keep. Until now. Holy Love is a masterclass on the true meaning of love and provides an expansive curriculum and formula for a deep, Soul-driven, love-filled life. Highly recommended for all students of love.”
— Arielle Ford, author of Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate
“This offering from Adam Foley and Elisa Romeo is to me one of the most timely, profound gifts of this new era and one that not only meets our deepest secret desire for fulfillment but holds our hand and walks us to it. When Elisa first told me that she and Adam were writing this book together, I almost cried. More than tears, though, my body is lighting up with a remembrance of how good life can be when we are not so constantly distracted from our Soul, the Soul of our partner, and the Souls of all the people we relate to every day. Mark my words: this book will go down as one of the most thorough, expansive, important books of this new era. Elisa and Adam are a teaching union like no other — no BS, funny, but also in touch with realms that transport us home. I feel so lucky to receive this wisdom from these two, and it will be at the top of my list of gifts to give people I love.”
— Peta Kelly, author of Earth Is Hiring, Stop Missing the Point, and Earth to Kids
“Holy Love helps us break free from unfulfilling scripted expectations and move into a deeper and more fulfilling way of relating. Its helpful exercises guide you to find your truth and share it with your partner. Enjoy it, and live and love better.”
— Gary S. Bobroff, author and founder of Jungian Online and JUNG Archademy
“Packed with spiritual wisdom that comes to life through fascinating stories, Holy Love does a beautiful job of describing everyday steps for bringing your highest, most loving self to any relationship.”
— Erin Leyba, PhD, LCSW, author of Joy Fixes for Weary Parents: 101 Quick, Research-Based Ideas for Overcoming Stress and Building a Life You Love