Why do you feel an instant attraction to one person and not another? And how can you help ensure that a connection lasts? With her ability to deliver cutting edge information in a lighthearted style, communications expert Leil Lowndes has made a career of teaching the secrets of successful interaction.
In this book, based on the latest findings in cognitive science, she shows readers how to spark that elusive feeling of chemistry with almost anyoneand sustain it when the relationship moves to the next level, from marriage to parenthood and beyond.
Although chemistry affects nearly every relationship, few people understand itwhat initiates it, what destroys it, and what makes it last forever. While genetic makeup and past experiences all play a role, there are many things you can do to influence it.
Ultrapractical, How to Create Chemistry with Anyone turns the complex neurological science of attachment into 75 easy communication strategies and unusual techniques that show readers what to doand what not to doto find and keep love.
|Publisher:||Da Capo Books|
|Product dimensions:||5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.90(d)|
About the Author
Leil Lowndes is one of today's most sought-after communication speakers and consultants through her company Applause, Inc. and is author of the international bestsellers Goodbye to Shy, How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You and How to Talk to Anyone.
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I must admit that when I first picked up this book, I thought it was going to be about creating social chemistry with anyone you meet. I discovered it to be something entirely different but far more fascinating, the chemistry of sex and romance. The book gave me intriguing insights into how the human brain works in infatuation, falling in love, and long lasting love relationships. It also taught me about the actual chemicals that make people feel “crazy in love” (dopamine) and want to bond together for a long time (oxytocin.) What I especially liked about it was that it was broken down into actual techniques called “Sparkers” that you can do to create initial romantic chemistry with someone and then turn it into love. I recommend the first half of this book to anyone who wants to excite someone sexually. Then I recommend the second half to anyone who wants to keep a partner and bring back the excitement.
I just finished reading "How To Create Chemistry With Anyone" and I really enjoyed it. Lots of great thought provoking and reflective moments. I'm recently divorced, and engaged in a new search and dating and the book is helping already! I just got it 4 days ago, and I'm done already, AND I hadn't finished a whole book in YEARS! I wasn't even sure I still knew how to read! ;-)
Given that so many sociologists, psychologists and authors have tried to codify sexual attraction, I am thrilled to report that Leil Lowndes’ new book, How to Create Chemistry with Anyone succeeds BIGTIME in zeroing in on what makes people fall and stay in love. Leil says, “Everything has an evolutionary or chemical reason,” and then goes on to explain, demystify and illustrate loads of research data about why and how men and women either hit it off (or not) romantically. In addition to making sense of what goes on physically and emotionally beneath the surface when two people connect on a deeper level, what makes this book a must read for singles and couples is its deep insights and spot-on advice to find and keep the love of your life. If you want to improve your lovelife then read this book and follow the author’s advice.