Not Her Daughter

Not Her Daughter

by Rea Frey


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ISBN-13: 9781250166425
Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Publication date: 08/21/2018
Pages: 352
Sales rank: 31,946
Product dimensions: 5.30(w) x 8.20(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Rea Frey is an award-winning author of several nonfiction books. She lives in Nashville with her husband and daughter. Not Her Daughter is her debut novel.

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Not Her Daughter: A Novel 4.4 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 35 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
How far would you go to protect an abused child? What an incredible book. Five ????? gigantical stars (yes, that's a word ?) Was she kidnapped or was she rescued? Not my Daughter is the debut novel by Rea Frey and is told in first person in alternating chapters between the mother and the kidnapper, moving between the past and the present seamlessly. Both characters are so relatable...yes, even the abusive mother. An emotionally charged story that had me turning the pages at a frantic rate. Easily one of the best books I've read this year. I was provided an ARC of this book by NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
KrittersRamblings 26 days ago
Check out the full review at Kritters Ramblings Two women and a young girl are at the center of this story. Sarah Walker and Amy Townsend. Amy Townsend is a wife, mother and full time employee. She is not exceeding at all of these things as most people can't do it all. Sarah Walker owns a company, but hasn't become a wife or mother. At a chance encounter she meets Amy, her husband and child and has immediate feelings about her and the family. When she acts on those feelings, the story begins . . .
Anonymous 10 months ago
Drones on and in with details uninportant to the story. And the whole story isnt very believable and ends very abruptly
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This was one of the best books I have read lately. The format was a bit annoying, so here's a clue to reading it. The chapters alternate between characters and then realize that sometimes you are in the thoughts of a person, at a different time in her life. But keep reading....its so good!
LlamaJen More than 1 year ago
I really enjoyed the story and the alternating between Sarah and Amy. I wasn't a fan of Amy or Sarah. Amy was a horrid mother and admitted to not liking her daughter and Sarah is a kidnapper. My problem with Sarah is she justifies her kidnapping, but it's still kidnapping. I loved the writing style and was completely hooked from the first chapter. Sarah witnesses an incident at an airport involving a five year old girl, Emma Grace, and her mother. Sarah immediately identifies with the little girl. On a random visit to a Montessori School, Sarah crosses paths with Emma once again. She pretty much stalks the family, by constantly riding her bike by their house. While hiding in the woods behind Emma's house, Sarah witnesses Emma being slapped. She makes her move and the girl goes willingly with her. Sarah believes she is doing the right thing. I had mixed emotions about this book. I found this book really scary. No one saw Sarah take Emma and the worst part was that Emma went with her. There was no Stanger Danger. I knew there was no going back for Sarah when she brought out the scissors and hair dye. You can't just kidnap a child because you think they have a horrible life. What kind of life is Sarah giving Emma? It's one built on lies, they are constantly looking over their shoulders and moving all the time. I have so many questions!! How Sarah is able to pull this off and how can Emma go to school without the proper paper work? Ethan knows who has the child, so why doesn't he go to the police? What really happened with Ethan? If Sarah was really happy with him and loved him what was the problem? For as smart as Sarah was she just didn't make good decisions. She meets a man at a park, goes to dinner with him and then spends several days with him. Who does that? Doesn't she watch the ID Channel? That's how people get locked down in basements, but I guess it doesn't matter since she is already a kidnapper and crossed many state lines. It seemed so random that Sarah's mom happens to call her. It's been twenty-five years since she has seen her. Then there's Emma's parents. Did I like them- NO, but I did feel sorry that their daughter was stolen from them. Emma showed no emotion for her mom or dad. She never missed them or cried for them. It seemed so unusually for a child. I definitely recommend the book. Loved the story and writing style and can't wait to read more by the author. Thanks to NetGalley, St. Martin's Press and the author, Rea Frey, for a free electronic ARC of this novel.
CCinME More than 1 year ago
Good solid telling of a child abduction and the fallout from multiple viewpoints. It wraps up neatly at the end and moved along at a nice pace. Really enjoyed this writer and the story!
Debi_2014andBeyond More than 1 year ago
Through my association as a book blogger with various publishers and book reviewing sites, I often have the opportunity to learn about books by authors that I've never heard about before and might have missed the opportunity to otherwise read their books. Today's post is exactly one of those books by one of those authors - Rea Frey's new book, Not Her Daughter, which was just released by St. Martin's Press yesterday, August 21, 2018. The book had me from the back cover. I drank in this story right from the beginning. I was captured throughout - sneaking pages in the car, in the line waiting to make my purchase, and once, I'll admit, even at a red light. I couldn't help myself either. I felt like I was living right next door to some of the characters in this story.  I was completely invested from the get go, and nervous to find out how things would ultimately turn out.  That's how real the story reads, folks. The story goes in between Amy and Sarah and alternates between before, during and after.  I felt like it was so crazy to be hopeful that the kidnapper would prevail instead of the grieving parents, but I just couldn't help myself.  Sarah could very easily be one of my friends whereas Amy would be someone I would steer away from. I wanted little Emma to live a happy life and that meant she and Sarah needed to get away and live "happily ever after". This book raised so many questions that I felt it would really make a perfect book club book for sure. To define the story in one word, I guess I'd use the word "gripping".  This was a gripping read. I’ve read so many books involving missing children and this one was very different and unique. Ms. Frey really knows how to spin a fabulous story! The story and the characters were well written and it was a quick and easy read to follow. I can't even believe this is a debut novel, and I really hope to read many more of Ms. Frey's stories in the future! I received an advanced readers copy of this book from St. Martin's Press in exchange for my honest review. I was not required to provide a positive review but couldn't help myself but to do so because this was an amazing book!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I loved it
BettyTaylor More than 1 year ago
This book was amazing - exciting! I did not expect the ending – but it totally worked! Sarah Walker first observes the interactions between Amy Townsend and her five-year-old daughter Emma in an airport. Amy is scolding and pushing Emma while arguing with her husband. Unable to get Emma out of her mind, Sarah sees her again a few months later. This time when Amy physically lashes out at Emma Sarah snaps. Having herself grown up in a home where her mother was first verbally and emotionally abusive to Sarah and then walked out of the home, Sarah is shaken to her core to see this happening to Emma. So – Sarah takes Emma – just to keep her safe. Can this be so wrong? Now Sarah is on the run. She has to do this. She can’t let Emma be returned to her mother. Amy Townsend – nagging wife. How did life go so wrong? Why can she never catch a break? Unfit mother? Her small son never seems to push her buttons like Emma does. Now Emma is missing. How did she let this happen? Does she want a second chance with Emma? Would life be better without Emma? Did I want her to have a second chance? Two women – one child. Which woman is a “real mother”? What does it take to be a “god” mother? Such a beautifully written story – and so difficult to put down. How dare life get in the way when I have such a phenomenal book to read! The characters are believable. The situation is impossible – or is it? We know the law, but is the law always right? Quite the moral dilemma. We definitely dive into that gray area here. Emotionally wrenching! Suspenseful! I loved it!! Perfect book club read! Thank you to St. Martin's Press and NetGalley for the review copy. This review is solely my opinion.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book alternated viewpoints between Sarah (Emma's kidnapper) and Amy (Emma's mother) before, during, and after Emma's kidnapping. While I definitely enjoyed reading this book, I found it hard to relate to the main characters. Sarah had a hard childhood and because of that thinks the only logical thing to do when she sees a mother yelling/slapping her daughter is to take the child and give her a new life. Amy is stuck in her overwhelmingly mediocre life and is mad at everything and everyone and takes it out on Emma. Will Sarah get caught by authorities? Return Emma on her own? Turn her over to CPS? The book is certainly an entertaining page turner but some parts of the story and especially the ending were predictable, bewildering, and slightly unbelievable. Thank you to St. Martin's Press and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for a review.
ChristineAE2 More than 1 year ago
FANTASTIC READ! I am giving this one the full five stars, I loved Not Her Daughter. This is not your run of the mill kidnapping story-line- you are going to be cheering Sarah Walker the “kidnapper” on! Take Emma Grace Townsend and keep her FOREVER, leave the state, leave the country and GOOOOOOO girl! I think I may have enjoyed this book even more since I have worked hand in hand with social services for over 10 years and have found myself in a similar position as Sarah wanting to rescue a child. I have seen the system fail many times as well as succeed and do just what it is intended to do. “The system is broken. There are good people who work for these children and do the best they can, but the system is just too big for them to make a difference. It’s a horrible process for the child, and it’s almost impossible to prove neglect from parents by a total stranger. At best, she’d get placed in social services.” The only part I don’t agree with is that I know that these people, myself, my coworkers DO make a difference, we may not be able to fix everything or everyone BUT for the ones we can help, we DO make a difference. Sarah Walker is catching a flight when she sees a beautiful little girl in a red dress, red bow, and red shoes. “She looked like Christmas.” Sarah watched this little girl be tugged and pulled on and yelled at by her mother and hoped that this was not how this gorgeous child was always treated and this was a bad day, a stressful day. I mean, flying is a stressful experience for most of us. “I couldn’t forget Emma. I couldn’t forget.” Just when Sarah is starting to put the little girl out of her mind, Sarah has a chance meeting with this same stunning little five year old girl with gray eyes. This cannot be a coincidence for these two to cross paths again. “I must get Emma to come with me somewhere else, to a place that is not her home, with a person who is not her mother.” “I am rewriting her story, altering her memories, shifting her shitty childhood into clean chunks: before during, after. Then now, someday." The story is told from the perspectives of Sarah Walker (kidnapper) and Amy Townsend, Emma’s mother alternating between before, during, and after Emma is taken. I was on the edge of my patio chair, heart racing wondering what was going to happen next. Rea Frey’s writing style is very engaging and captured my attention immediately. The characters were multidimensional and seemed real; I had feelings for each one. I could easily picture scenes playing out in my head…Not Her Daughter would make an excellent movie in my opinion. I cannot wait to see what Rea Frey comes out with next as this book was superb! ***Thank you St. Martin’s Press and NetGalley for a copy in exchange for my honest review.
Ejaygirl More than 1 year ago
Sarah Walker is a successful business owner, still recovering from a failed relationship, but seemingly healthy in all respects. While on a business trip, she witnesses a disturbing scene between a mother and her young daughter at an airport. It’s clear the mother is frazzled but not enough to excuse her treatment of the little girl in the red dress, hair bow and shoes. Not long after, Sarah discovers the little girl again during a trip to a Montessori school to pitch business and follows her home, just to make certain her life is better than what she first witnessed. Unfortunately, it’s not and Sarah and 5-year old Emma both make a decision that permanently alters their lives and that of many others. I began this story knowing that Sarah takes Emma but couldn’t believe there would be any circumstances where I would condone her actions. Incredibly, I found myself rooting for Sarah and Emma but also felt compassion for Amy, Emma’s mother, despite her horrible parenting. There are a host of issues presented in this story, none of them explored in any real depth but enough to stimulate thought provoking inquiry. You see society passing harsher judgment on the mothers in this story while the enabling fathers seem to get a pass. The story provides quite a bit of background on both Sarah and Amy, providing some insights and contrasts into and between the two women. This was a Traveling Friends group book selection that generated a robust discussion, raising some provocative points of view I hadn’t considered. One dealt with how tough women are on other women as parents, maybe reflecting their own insecurities. While the ending left a lot of dangling resolutions, I enjoyed the book for challenging paradigms about parenting, child abductions and female/male stereotypes. It doesn’t provide a lot of answers but it made me think and left me to my imagination about the story’s outcome. (I received an advance copy from NetGalley in exchange for an unbiased review)
DiiMI More than 1 year ago
She was there one minute, annoying and needy, the next she was gone. Emma was a child of abuse, living with loneliness, she had nowhere safe to land. Sarah Walker had a chance encounter with Emma and her abusive mother and she never forgot that day. Was it because of her own abandonment issues? The successful business owner would cross paths with five-year-old Emma again, and Sarah would decide to become her savior. Now Sarah is a kidnapper and the country is looking for little Emma. Emma’s mother, Amy, took all of her dissatisfaction with her life out on Emma, but now the world was giving Amy attention, they felt sorry for her, they thought they knew her pain, but did she really hurt? As Sarah and Emma travel the country avoiding capture, Emma will finally learn what it is to be loved and wanted, and Sarah is determined to give Emma all of the motherly protection they both missed out on, but will Sarah’s guilt finally allow the little girl to go home? Will she ask her to choose between Amy and Sarah? How can small child choose between the reality of her life and the fantasy Sarah is creating for both of them? Set aside the moral dilemmas, the unhealthy state of Sarah’s mind, her desperation to be loved, to live that love vicariously through Emma and get ready to be drawn into a story that is as sharp as tacks and just as painful. NOT HER DAUGHTER by Rea Frey is an excellent piece of writing and creativity on the part of the author, but it is chilling. I struggled throughout the first part of the book, waiting for Sarah to devolve into something completely out of touch with reality. I wanted Amy arrested for the abuse she rained down on Emma, both physically and worse, emotionally. Additionally, all those who knew about it, were just as guilty. I was never comfortable with this read, yes, it is powerful, but I just couldn’t reconcile myself with the events, or the outcome. I tend to think beyond the last page of a book to the future and I wonder if either of these women would ever know what it really means to be a mother?
whatsbetterthanbooks More than 1 year ago
Riveting, affecting, and unique! Not Her Daughter is a thought-provoking, clever, tight thriller that highlights just how fine the line between criminal intent and morally acceptable behaviour can be when it comes to the protection of children. The writing is taut and emotive. The characters are complex, troubled, and authentic. And the plot told from dual points of view and alternating timelines, before-and-after the kidnapping, builds subtly to create tension and suspense as it unravels piece-by-piece all the motivations, actions, personalities, and relationships within it. Not Her Daughter at its core is a novel about family, relationships, secrets, parental abuse, abduction, and the lengths one will go to protect, care, and love a child. It’s expressive, absorbing, unnerving, and without a doubt an exceptional debut for Frey.
LGandhi More than 1 year ago
5 Hold On To The Seat of Your Pants, Just Wow Stars!!!!!!!!! I am so mixed on how to write this review. Not because of bad writing or a stale storyline. On the contrary, both were incredible. I don't know if I've ever read a book where I actually was rooting for the bad guy. And in this case, the "bad guy"'is a kidnapper, which as a parent is my absolute worst nightmare. Have you ever been out in public and witnessed a parent disciplining or responding to their child in a manner you felt was inappropriate, even bordered on abuse? How would you handle that situation, do you get involved on behalf of the child or do you turn away? This is the predicament Sarah finds herself in. And the decision she makes will grab hold of you and not let you go until the last page, it will take your breathe away, it will scare you and maybe even have you cheering "Go Girl!" at times. This book is going to make you think. What is really the "right" thing to do - in the eyes of the law, in the life of a child, in hopes of humanity, in terms of what someone deserves? Was Emma kidnapped or was she rescued? Did Sarah have the right to do what she did? Was she helping or making an already bad situation worse? Is it possible for Emma to have a happy ending? Do parents get a second chance to right a wrong they have made? I stayed up till the odd hours of the morning because I had to finish this book, I had to know how it ended, I had to know what was going to happen. And then I couldn't go to sleep just thinking about that ending!!!!! I'm not going to share any spoilers in my review, I will say I don't think that ending was what I thought was going to happen. I was......shocked!!! Reading a book, especially a new author that's a great outcome. I will definitely be looking for her next book. But also shocked in a way that I don't know how I feel about the ending, I'm conflicted, again not giving away any spoilers, I stayed up musing whether this was a good thing or a bad thing the way it ended. And as a parent, how could that happen.... Also all good outcomes for a book - you want the book to resonate with your readers. You want your book to be memorable and one they will recommend others to read, not just the day after they read it, but months after they read it. This book does that and more. I will be talking about this book for awhile. I will highly recommend this book to others to read. And you don't need to be a parent to be able to relate to this book. Just a side note, after reading about Emma's story (and I know this isn't a true story, but it felt like it could be....), I hugged my son a little tighter, I praised him more than I already do and made sure he knows how much I love him and how proud of him I am. Because every child deserves to be brought up in a loving and encouraging environment. (Probably not the side note you were expecting, huh?) Pick up this book to read. It's not your ordinary suspenseful cookie cutter kidnapping story. You will be pleasantly surprised with this storyline. My thanks to Netgalley, Rea Frey and St. Martin's Griffin publishing for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
deb-oh More than 1 year ago
Not Her Daughter Rea Fray I received this copy from NetGalley for an honest Review: any of us think we're doing it right? What about a woman who really doesn't 'like' her 5 year old daughter? Who has a hard time keeping her temper, who really is unsatisfied with her life? I really wanted to relate to Amy, the 'real' mom, but I have to tell you, I just didn't like her...she was selfish, mean, short-tempered, and whiny...everything a Mom can't afford to be (that being said, I did find myself feeling for her, she honestly knew her short-comings). When her daughter goes missing, actually kidnapped by a woman who has seen how she is treated and just wants her to have a better life, well you start to root for the kidnapper; it's a weird feeling to be rooting for the 'bad' guy for all intents and purposes, but you do! I found this story to be a bit far-fetched yet it kept me glued to the pages to see how it all worked out. Very readable story. #NetGalley #Not Her Daughter
deb-oh More than 1 year ago
Not Her Daughter Rea Fray I received this copy from NetGalley for an honest Review: any of us think we're doing it right? What about a woman who really doesn't 'like' her 5 year old daughter? Who has a hard time keeping her temper, who really is unsatisfied with her life? I really wanted to relate to Amy, the 'real' mom, but I have to tell you, I just didn't like her...she was selfish, mean, short-tempered, and whiny...everything a Mom can't afford to be (that being said, I did find myself feeling for her, she honestly knew her short-comings). When her daughter goes missing, actually kidnapped by a woman who has seen how she is treated and just wants her to have a better life, well you start to root for the kidnapper; it's a weird feeling to be rooting for the 'bad' guy for all intents and purposes, but you do! I found this story to be a bit far-fetched yet it kept me glued to the pages to see how it all worked out. Very readable story. #NetGalley #Not Her Daughter
RobinLovesReading More than 1 year ago
4.5 Stars This book called my morals into question. How can you blur the lines between right and wrong? Why has Sarah Walker taken five-year-old Emma? Was it to protect the little girl? Why would a successful entrepreneur suddenly become a kidnapper? These three questions jumped right out at me as I begin reading Not Your Daughter. It didn't take but a moment for me to realize that Sarah had definitely had a very good motive, but could doing something so very wrong in all actuality be doing something very right? As someone who works with young children, Sarah is greatly affected when she first sees a after witnessing a disturbing scene at an airport. Her heart is broken, but she figures she will never see the beautiful little girl again. Circumstances shockingly change, however, and she does see Emma again. Wondering if what she saw at the airport was just a fluke, she takes the opportunity to sneak about and watch Emma for a bit. The perfect opportunity arises and she kidnaps Emma. It was without premeditation. However, she quickly realizes that she is either all in or all out when it comes to protecting Emma. Sarah's own mother was abusive and she feels every bit of Emma's pain. Her compulsion to protect Emma defies all reason. At any cost she will protect this child from her cruel mother. Not Her Daughter is incredibly sensitive and touching. The story is told in multiple points of view, in both the past and present. This gives readers opportunity to understand Amy a bit - although as much as I tried, I had no compassion for her with her daughter missing. Emma's father Richard irritated me to no end. How could he not see all of the abuse, and if he did, why did he never do anything about it. It was the "before" segments that prevented this book from getting five stars. As much as these explored the motives of the characters, I was much more interested in Sarah and Emma's plight. Sarah is my hero. She truly is. She saw a situation that she gave her power to change, she acted on it. Yes, this could have put her in jail for the rest of her life, but all she could see is the now, and how she had to protect Sarah. While Sarah is trying to always stay one step ahead, her previous relationship with Ethan, which caused her great heartbreak, comes into play again. Sarah makes a great mother -yes, that is how I began to view her - and her relationship with Emma grew so well that it truly touched my heart. When I picked up this book, I was grabbed from page one, and was that way right through the very end. There was quite a bit of tension, as well as quite a bit of angst while reading about Amy and how she viewed parenthood. Then there were the feelings of aggravation towards Richard, Emma's father and Ethan. Yes, these emotions and more were experienced while reading this book. I cannot believe that such a well-written debut novel was so incredibly good! And, the fact that I read that this will be a major motion picture. Wow! It truly deserves it, and audiences all over will no doubt experience pretty much what I did when they read this remarkably emotional book. I would especially like to thank St. Martins for sending me this title for review, and this is my honest opinion.
Alfoster More than 1 year ago
Could you ever side with a kidnapper? What if the kidnapper was simply rescuing a child from harm or neglect? And what if the kidnapper's own past somehow contributed to deep feelings of abandonment? These are just a few of the questions that come to light in this lovely and insightful novel. When Sarah first sees Emma and her parents at the airport and watches Amy slapping her for not keeping up, she is horrified at the potential abuse. Later, coincidentally, she sees Emma again and is galvanized by the idea she must help this little girl who is clearly in need of mothering. And so she does. But what about the consequences? Sarah has her own demons; her mother ran out on her family, her recent relationship ended badly, and she is now drawn to five-year-old Emma. How far can she run and keep secrets hidden? Poignant and compelling, this novel will draw you in and keep you in its grips until the very end--perhaps a one-sitting read! Thanks to NetGalley for this ARC!
sbart84 More than 1 year ago
An amazing book that I could not put down. The book revolves around two woman. The kidnapper and the mother. Sarah, the kidnapper only wants what is best for Emma. So Sarah kidnaps Emma, to show her a better life that what she had. Amy, the mother has been abusive to Emma and has never really been able to connect with her daughter. So, who really is the real mother to Emma? This is a gripping emotional story that I could not put down. I only wanted what was best for Emma but is kidnapping the way to go to get her out of the damaging environment. Both women are damaged in their lives with different coping means. This is page turner that I could not put down. Looking forward to watching the movie. I highly recommend!!
Jolie More than 1 year ago
Not Her Daughter is one of those books that you need to read with tissues. It is also a thought-provoking book. It makes you think how far would you go to help an abused child. And how far is too far? What this book also showed is how people turn a blind eye to problems that aren’t their own. At any point, the school/neighbors/babysitter could have stepped up for Emma. But they didn’t. No one wanted to rock the boat. No one wanted to take that extra step to help Emma until Sarah arrived. I know this is going sound weird, but I kind of felt for Amy right after Sarah took Emma. My sympathy was taken away as the story went on. She became unlikable. She only thought about herself. Not about Emma. Not about her husband or son. Just about herself. I came to the conclusion at the end of the book that she was some sort of sociopath. She deserved everything that happened to her after Emma was taken. On the same note, I couldn’t believe how clueless Emma’s father was. How could you not notice your wife mistreating your child? How could you not see the bruises or even the fact that your child was malnourished? I know most people would feel bad for him, but I didn’t. He lived with his head in the sand. He did end up doing the right thing in the end by leaving Amy but still. Too little, too late. Sarah was such a great character to read. She was conflicted and man, did she have her demons. I thought seeing Sarah so torn on taking Emma was great. She wasn’t a bad person but she did something that was horrible. Even if it was to protect a child. Her demons did show up during the book. Between the ex that she shouldn’t have let get away to her very childhood, she was forced to face them. I like how it was done during the book. I also liked how Sarah learned and grew from facing them. Emma was the only one that I felt completely bad for. Her mother hated her. Why? Because she was prettier than Amy. Yes, you read that right. So, she ended up getting the short end of the stick. She was neglected, beaten and not fed right. Then Sarah comes along and takes her. Don’t get me wrong, it was for the better. Emma thrived with Sarah. But still. Even at the end of the book, Emma was treated like some sort of hot commodity. Emma did get a chance to make her choice and I was pretty happy with what she chose. The child abuse angle was very well written. The author did a great job of giving enough detail so you knew what was going on. But she didn’t give too much. I have read books that give too much detail. Which is fine. But in this case, it wasn’t needed. The kidnapping angle held enough oomph to keep my attention. Sarah’s run from the law while trying to heal a wounded child and deal with her own issues. The author did a great job at not dropping the ball with that. The urgency was there and it did not let up. I did think that Sarah going to her ex’s cabin was a bit of a fail but I could see why she did it. I do not like more than 2 POV’s. I get thrown off the storyline. But in this book, it works. I got to see what was going on in all 3 people’s minds as this drama unfolded. It fascinated me and kept me reading. The end of the book was anticlimactic for me. I don’t know what I was expecting but it wasn’t that. I felt let down. After everything that happened in the book, I expected more out of the ending. I loved the epilogue. Thought it was one of the best ones I have read to date.
Regina-Reads More than 1 year ago
This novel delves headfirst into an impossibly complicated scenario and explores the murky waters of mother-daughter relationships, bad childhoods, bad marriages, and bad mothers. I couldn't put this book down. It's been optioned for film! Wow. If you start this book with looming deadlines or close to bedtime, be prepared to disregard both once you start reading Rea Frey’s immensely absorbing novel, Not Her Daughter. This is, hands down, one of the most compelling books I’ve read so far this year. It is a fast-paced story that alternates between two female narrators, leading up to and during the kidnapping of a five-year-old girl. This book immerses the reader into the minds of two very different women. One, a successful and recently single business woman with an unhappy past, and the other a self-loathing, frazzled mother of two in an unhappy marriage. Both women’s lives intersect when one abducts the five-year-old daughter of the other. I was shocked and appalled by the narrators as they deliberated their way through the unthinkable–the abduction of a child. The characters are both deeply flawed and, perhaps, relatable to the fringe imaginings of any unhappy mother or neglected child. The story probes the female experience of motherhood and mother-daughter relationships, bringing the most disturbing and base thoughts to the center of the page. As readers, we are forced to examine our own thoughts and contemplate an impossible question: Can the abduction of a child in an unhappy living situation every be justified? After reading this novel, you will most likely be compelled to discuss it with a friend or recommend it to your local library as a book club pick. Those who love to read psychological suspense and/or domestic dramas should grab a copy of this book stat!
lauriesophee More than 1 year ago
"She was safe. She was fed. She had fun. She learned things. She was loved." This story is about a young woman, Sarah, who never had love from her mother. Emma, is five and there are too many similarities in Emma's life that Sarah cannot allow. Sarah makes a split second decision that she must now live with. What is the right thing? I read this novel in a day and really enjoyed it. I had mixed emotions as I turned the pages and I am sure anyone who reads this will also experience anger, frustration, and yet love for these two characters.
Laeljeanne More than 1 year ago
Sarah’s mother resented her existence, never failing to make her aware of the obstacle she is in life of a woman who believes she gave up fame to be a mother. So she may have been primed for kidnapping a little girl whose mother treated her in a similar manner. After a month on the run with the child, with all that entails—lying to friends and family, shifting work priorities, constant fear—Sarah’s conscience shifts. Coincidentally, her own mother contacts her after a lifetime of absenteeism. As though laying out with tweezers the contents of her life, Frey carefully portrays a mother who never wanted to be a mother in a way that even the most hardhearted reader can squeeze out a bit of sympathy for her. Confused, overwrought, overweight (the character focuses on this fact about herself excessively), she’s suspected of murdering her own child on circumstantial evidence she can’t refute. The fact that the mother wishes to improve herself redeems her, if only just. The child, however, seems way too well-adjusted and mentally healthy for the childhood she was enduring when she was taken. There was no groundwork laid to show her easy ability to make friends or readily accept changes not easily understood by small children. Even severely abused children cry for their mothers, and this one reached for hers after the mother’s hateful words of not loving her, so that completely assimilating into a new life, even a more positive one, so quickly seems to be less than credible. Furthermore, after the surprising turn of events at the climax, the father’s character inexplicably fades away. This novel raises the question of who we really are to ourselves, as Sarah repeatedly states that she is not a kidnapper, though that is exactly what she is. It also points out the challenges of a legal system that cannot, for practical purposes, factor in emotional abuse of children in removing them from the home, though this seems irrelevant here. It seems unlikely that Montessori school officials would not have notified authorities regarding the bruises that covered the child’s arms and legs. Such obvious signs of physical abuse countered Sarah’s sense of morality. Without that aspect of the mother’s bad parenting, this story would have made more sense. I was fortunate to receive an early copy from the publisher through NetGalley.
412037RH More than 1 year ago
Wow, great book! It is about a women, Sarah, who sees a little girl at an airport with her family and the mother is abusive to the little girl. The father seems to be ignoring her. Sarah sees how sad the little girl is and remembers her own unhappy childhood with her mother. Sarah then sees the little girl again but this time she decides to take her. She makes this little girl's life very happy. The little girls mother, Amy, seems to be glad that her daughter is gone. This story is for all the times you may have seen a parent being abusive to there child and you wanted to step in and take that child away or help in some way. Loved this author!