Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication
"Reflect & Relate represents the finest new and classic scholarship in the field of interpersonal communication. In this text, students learn how to systematically reason through interpersonal challenges, reflect on their communication, and develop skills for better relationships"--
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Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication
"Reflect & Relate represents the finest new and classic scholarship in the field of interpersonal communication. In this text, students learn how to systematically reason through interpersonal challenges, reflect on their communication, and develop skills for better relationships"--
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Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication

Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication

Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication

Reflect & Relate: An Introduction to Interpersonal Communication

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"Reflect & Relate represents the finest new and classic scholarship in the field of interpersonal communication. In this text, students learn how to systematically reason through interpersonal challenges, reflect on their communication, and develop skills for better relationships"--

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781319247584
Publisher: Bedford/St. Martin's
Publication date: 11/02/2021
Edition description: Sixth Edition
Pages: 496
Product dimensions: 8.55(w) x 10.85(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

STEVEN McCORNACK is associate professor of communication and coordinator of the undergraduate program at Michigan State University. He has published over 20 articles in leading communication journals, and he has also won several prestigious teaching awards and fellowships, including the Lilly Endowment Teaching Fellowship, the Amoco Foundation Excellence-in-Teaching Award, and the Michigan State University Teacher/Scholar Award.

Table of Contents

1

Introducing Interpersonal Communication 

What Is Communication? 

Defining Communication

Understanding Communication Models

What Is Interpersonal Communication? 

Defining Interpersonal Communication

Principles of Interpersonal Communication

Motives for Interpersonal Communication

What Is Interpersonal Communication Competence? 

Understanding Competence

Self-quiz: Test Your Self-Monitoring

Improving Your Competence Online

Issues in Interpersonal Communication 

Culture

Gender and Sexual Orientation

Focus on Culture: Intercultural Competence

Online Communication

The Dark Side of Interpersonal Relationships

 Making Relationship Choices: Dealing with a Difficult Friend

The Journey Ahead 

Chapter Review

part one / Interpersonal Essentials

2

Considering Self 

The Components of Self

Self-Awareness 

Self-Concept 

Self-Quiz: Test Your Self-Concept Clarity

Self-Esteem 

Focus on Culture: How Does the Media Shape Your Self-Esteem? 

The Sources of Self

Gender and Self 

Family and Self 

Culture and Self

Communicating Your Self

Maintaining Your Public Self 

Disclosing Your Private Self

The Relational Self

Competently Disclosing Your Self

The Online Self

Presenting Your Self Online

Evaluating Online Self Presentations

Improving Your Online Self Presentation

Improving Your Self

 Making Relationship Choices: Workplace Self-Disclosure

Chapter Review

3

Perceiving Others

Perception as a Process

Selecting Information 

Organizing the Information You’ve Selected 

Interpreting the Information

Reducing Uncertainty 

Influences on Perception

Perception and Culture

Perception and Gender 

Focus on Culture: Perceiving Race

Perception and Personality 

Forming Impressions of Others

Constructing Gestalts

Calculating Algebraic Impressions 

Using Stereotypes 

Improving Your Perception

Offering Empathy 

Self-Quiz: Test Your Empathy

Checking Your Perception

Practicing Responsible Perception

 Making Relationship Choices: Balancing Impressions and Empathy 

Chapter Review

4

Experiencing and Expressing Emotions 

The Nature of Emotion

Defining Emotion 

Feelings and Moods 

Types of Emotions 

Focus on Culture: Happiness across Cultures 

Forces Shaping Emotion

Personality

Gender 

Managing Your Emotional Experience and Expression

Emotional Intelligence

Self-Quiz: Test Your Emotional Intelligence

Managing Emotions After They Occur 

Preventing Emotions Before They Occur

Reappraising Emotions While They Occur 

Emotional Challenges

Anger

Online Communication and Empathy Deficits 

Passion 

Grief 

Living a Happy Emotional Life

 Making Relationship Choices: Managing Anger and Providing Support 

Chapter Review

part two / Interpersonal Skills

5 

Understanding Culture 

Understanding Culture

Culture Defined 

Co-Cultures

Focus on Culture: Is Technology a Cultural Divide?

Prejudice 

Cultural Influences on Communication

Individualism versus Collectivism 

Uncertainty Avoidance 

Power Distance 

High and Low Context 

Emotion Displays 

Masculinity versus Femininity 

Views of Time 

Creating Intercultural Competence

World-Mindedness

Attributional Complexity 

Communication Accommodation 

Self-Quiz: Are You World-Minded or Ethnocentric? 

Dismantling Division

 Making Relationship Choices: Parent-Child Culture Clash 

Chapter Review

6 

Understanding Gender

Understanding Gender

Gender Is Distinct from Sex and Gender Identity

Gender Is Learned

Gender Is Socially Constructed

Doing Gender

Considering Gender Roles

Focus on Culture: Gender Equity and Health

Gender and Communication

Gender and Verbal Communication

Gender and Nonverbal Communication

Gender and Relationships

Same-Sex Friendships

Romantic Relationships

Reflecting on Gender in Our Relationships

Self-quiz: Test Your Sexism

Moving Beyond Stereotypes

 Making Relationship Choices: Supporting a Gender-Nonconforming Friend

Chapter Review

7

Listening Actively 

Listening: A Five-Step Process

Receiving 

Attending 

Self-Quiz: Multitasking and Attention

Understanding 

Responding 

Recalling 

The Five Functions of Listening

Listening to Comprehend 

Listening to Discern 

Listening to Analyze 

Listening to Appreciate 

Listening to Support 

Adapting Your Listening Purpose 

Understanding Listening Styles

Four Listening Styles 

Gender Differences in Listening Styles 

Culture and Listening Styles

Focus on Culture: Men Just Don’t Listen! 

Improving Listening Competence

Selective Listening 

Eavesdropping 

Pseudo-Listening 

Aggressive Listening 

Narcissistic Listening 

The Gift of Active Listening

 Making Relationship Choices: Listening When You Don’t Want To 

Chapter Review

8 

Communicating Verbally 

Describing Verbal Communication

Language Is Symbolic 

Language Is Governed by Rules

Language Is Flexible 

Language Is Cultural 

Language Evolves 

Functions of Verbal Communication

Sharing Meaning 

Shaping Thought 

Naming 

Focus on Culture: Challenging Traditional Gender Labels

Performing Actions 

Crafting Conversations 

Managing Relationships 

Cooperative Verbal Communication

Understandable Messages 

Using "I" Language 

Using "We" Language 

Gender and Cooperative Verbal Communication 

Barriers to Cooperative Verbal Communication

Verbal Aggression 

Deception 

Self-Quiz: Test Your Deception Acceptance

Defensive Communication 

Communication Apprehension 

The Power of Verbal Communication

 Making Relationship Choices: Dealing with Difficult Truths 

Chapter Review

9

Communicating Nonverbally 

Describing Nonverbal Communication

Nonverbal Communication Differs from Verbal Communication

Nonverbal Communication Is Influenced by Culture 

Nonverbal Communication Is Influenced by Gender 

Nonverbal Communication Is Liberated Through Technology 

Nonverbal Communication Codes

Communicating Through Body Movements 

Communicating Through Voice 

Communicating Through Touch 

Focus on Culture: Touch and Distance

Communicating Through Personal Space 

Communicating Through Physical Appearance 

Communicating Through Objects 

Communicating Through the Environment 

Functions of Nonverbal Communication

Expressing Emotion 

Conveying Meanings 

Presenting Self 

Managing Interactions 

Defining Relationships 

Self-Quiz: Test Your Nonverbal Dominance Knowledge 

Competently Managing Your Nonverbal Communication

 Making Relationship Choices: Dealing with Mixed Messages

Chapter Review

10

Managing Conflict and Power 

Conflict and Interpersonal Communication

What Is Conflict?

Conflict in Relationships 

Power and Conflict

Power’s Defining Characteristics 

Power Currencies 

Power and Gender 

Power and Culture

Handling Conflict

Approaches to Handling Conflict 

Gender and Handling Conflict 

Culture and Handling Conflict 

Focus on Culture: Accommodation and Radical Pacifism

Technology and Handling Conflict 

Conflict Endings

Short-Term Conflict Resolutions

Long-Term Conflict Outcomes 

Challenges to Handling Conflict

Self-Enhancing Thoughts 

Destructive Messages 

Self-Quiz: Test Your Understanding of Destructive Thoughts

Serial Arguments 

Physical Violence 

Unsolvable Disputes 

Managing Conflict and Power

 Making Relationship Choices: Dealing with Family Conflict

Chapter Review

part three / Interpersonal Relationships

11 

Relationships with Romantic Partners 

Defining Romantic Relationships

Liking and Loving 

Different Types of Romantic Love 

Key Elements of Romantic Relationships 

Romantic Attraction

Proximity 

Physical Attractiveness 

Similarity 

Reciprocal Liking 

Resources 

Technology and Romantic Attraction 

Relationship Development and Deterioration

Coming Together 

Coming Apart 

Maintaining Romantic Relationships

Maintenance Strategies 

Maintaining Romance across Distance 

Deciding Whether to Maintain 

The Dark Side of Romantic Relationships

Betrayal 

Self-Quiz: How Often Do You Betray Romantic Partners?

Jealousy 

Focus on Culture: Infidelity Internationally

Relational Intrusion

Dating Violence 

The Hard Work of Successful Love

 Making Relationship Choices: Managing Jealousy about a Partner’s Ex

Chapter Review

12 

Relationships with Family Members 

Defining Family

Defining Characteristics of Family 

Types of Families 

Family Stories 

Communicating in Families

Communication Dimensions 

Family Communication Patterns 

Maintaining Family Relationships

Maintenance Strategies for Families 

Technology and Family Maintenance 

Dealing with Family Dialectics 

Focus on Culture: Autonomy and Class: Helicopter Parents

Family Relationship Challenges

Stepfamily Transition

Parental Favoritism 

Self-Quiz: How Much Family Favoritism Exists?

Interparental Conflict 

The Primacy of Family

 Making Relationship Choices: Struggling with Family Transitions 

Chapter Review

13 

Relationships with Friends 

The Nature of Friendship

Friendship Defined 

Friendship Functions 

Friendship across the Life Span 

Friendship, Culture, and Gender 

Friendship and Technology 

Types of Friendships

Best Friends 

Cross-Category Friendships 

Focus on Culture: Cross-Orientation Male Friendships

Maintaining Friendships

Following Friendship Rules 

Maintenance Strategies for Friends 

Friendship Challenges

Betrayal 

Geographic Separation 

Self-Quiz: Friendship Distance-Durability

Attraction: Romance and FWB Relationships 

The Importance of Friends 

 Making Relationship Choices: Choosing between Friends

Chapter Review

14 

Relationships in the Workplace 

The Nature of Workplace Relationships

The Culture of the Workplace

Networks in the Workplace 

Organizational Climates 

Technology in the Workplace 

Peer Relationships

Types of Peer Relationships 

Maintaining Peer Relationships 

Mixed-Status Relationships

Managing Up 

Communicating with Subordinates 

Focus on Culture: The Model Minority Myth

Maintaining Mixed-Status Relationships 

Challenges to Workplace Relationships

Workplace Bullying 

Workplace Romances 

Sexual Harassment 

Self-quiz: Test Your Perception of Sexual Harassment

Workplace Relationships and Human Happiness

 Making Relationship Choices: Dealing with Workplace Abuse

Chapter Review

Glossary

References

Name Index

Subject Index

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