Designed to help caregivers understand how to cope with and overcome the overwhelming challenges that arise while caregiving for a loved oneespecially an aging parent Role Reversal is a comprehensive guide to navigating the enormous daily challenges faced by caregivers. In these pages, Waichler blends her personal experience caring for her beloved father with her forty years of expertise as a patient advocate and clinical social worker. The result is a book offering invaluable information on topics ranging from estate planning to grief and anger to building a support network and finding the right level of care for your elderly parent.
|Publisher:||She Writes Press|
|Product dimensions:||5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.90(d)|
About the Author
Iris Waichler, MSW, LCSW has been a licensed clinical social worker and patient advocate for over forty years. She worked as a medical social worker in three major teaching hospitals. This is her third book; her last book, Riding the Infertility Roller Coaster , won four book awards, including “Best Book of the Year” from the National Association of Parenting Publications (NAPPA) and a Mom’s Choice Award. She has also been a Foreword Magazine and USABookNews finalist for best book of the year. Waichler has led workshops and done group, family, and individual counseling with people struggling with a variety of medical problems. She lives in Chicago with her husband, Steve, and her daughter, Grace.
Table of Contents
Introduction: The Challenges-and Rewards-of the Parental Role Reversal ix
Chapter 1 The Early Years Coping with Grief and Loss of Family 3
Chapter 2 My Father Goes to War Understanding and Coping with Memory Loss 22
Chapter 3 Marriage, Home, and Family Adult Children as Caretakers and the Challenges of Long Distance 43
Chapter 4 Coping with Cancer When a loved One Has a Terminal Illness 68
Chapter 5 Aging and Living Alone Seniors at Home: Driving, Care Options, and Medications 97
Chapter 6 Transitions: Leaving Home Finding the Right Assisted-Living Community 123
Chapter 7 Life in Dad's Pad and an Unexpected Illness Assessing Life at Home and the Caretaking Team 143
Chapter 8 No Mas 165
Chapter 9 How to Manage Hospital and Insurance Bills 195
Chapter 10 Preventing Identity Theft 209
Chapter 11 What You Need to Know about Nursing Homes 219
Chapter 12 An Overview of Estate Planning 234
Chapter 13 The Challenges Associated with End of Life: Legal Documents, Funeral Arrangements, and More 244
Chapter 14 Additional Caregiver Resources 258
About the Author 282
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
Reviewed by Mamta Madhavan for Readers' Favorite Role Reversal: How to Take Care of Yourself And Your Aging Parents by Iris Waichler is a helpful tool to all those who are involved in the caretaking of their loved ones as they grow older. The book encourages everyone to listen to their parents, the stories they have to tell, and find out what they want. The author shares her experiences of taking care of her father, and the importance of identifying and assessing the needs of an elderly parent. She also highlights the skills required, ranging from determination, patience, money, and knowledge, and how to work on them to walk through complicated issues like having a health plan, engaging other family members, and making final decisions. The book will also enable all those who are challenged by helping elderly loved ones in their families face them with renewed vigor, energy, and a fresh insight. I found the book useful and the tips and techniques shared by the author will guide everyone to be more patient and focused while handling aged parents. She also speaks about the challenges faced by caregivers like her, and advises readers on how to divide their time choosing caretaker responsibilities, choosing a nursing home, and how to manage hospital bills, which are all useful to those handling aged people. She also provides useful links to additional governmental, nonprofit, and private resources. It is an excellent guide for all caretakers and it is also a good book to have in one’s personal collection so that one can be organized when it comes to the needs of their aged parents.