SAFE: The Minimum Standard For Intimacy

Most men think intimacy fades because something is wrong with the relationship. But intimacy doesn't disappear because love weakens. It disappears when safety erodes.

Safety isn't about being calm or agreeable. It's about whether your nervous system stays steady when something feels off. When you collapse into withdrawal or push into urgency and control, the body on the other side loses the ability to relax, open, or trust, no matter how much love there is.

SAFE reveals the unseen mechanisms ...