Talking about Death: Comforting Advice about Uncomfortable Issues

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Even in this candidly confessional age, we've been conditioned to avoid discussions of death. Our youth-worshipping culture does everything to deny death, which is why, when the end nears, most of us are inadequately prepared to deal with it.

And the cost of that is great: many are haunted by memories of how inappropriately or painfully or uncomfortably their parents and grandparents died. Many of us avoid even considering the options, in all their complexity, that we will most likely face one day, given our new longevity and the profound advances in medicine.

With its wise and very compelling argument that all of us, ...

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Even in this candidly confessional age, we've been conditioned to avoid discussions of death. Our youth-worshipping culture does everything to deny death, which is why, when the end nears, most of us are inadequately prepared to deal with it.

And the cost of that is great: many are haunted by memories of how inappropriately or painfully or uncomfortably their parents and grandparents died. Many of us avoid even considering the options, in all their complexity, that we will most likely face one day, given our new longevity and the profound advances in medicine.

With its wise and very compelling argument that all of us, at any age, can and should face death before it faces us, Talking About Death addresses the cultural, personal, medical, and legal concerns that are necessary for us--as individuals and as a society--to prepare for a good death, a death where the dying are in control and not, as is too often the case, caught in a downward spiral of medical intervention and misunderstood intentions.

Virginia Morris skillfully weaves together personal stories and practical matters, scientific fact and spiritual sensitivity into an important book about how we can achieve a greater sense of peace in dying, and rediscover the art of living.

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781565124370
  • Publisher: Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill
  • Publication date: 5/11/2004
  • Pages: 256
  • Sales rank: 854,099
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 9.00 (h) x 0.80 (d)

Meet the Author

Virginia Morris is an award-winning author and journalist, and a nationally recognized authority on eldercare. Her previous book is Talking About Death, published in paperback by Algonquin. Ms. Morris lives with her family in Sag Harbor, New York.

Table of Contents

A Word of Un-Warning: Reading About Death Won't Kill You 1
Jack: One Birth, One Death 11
I Dying today
Unhappy Endings: Death Is Often Painful and Lonely 25
A Matter of Survival: Efforts at Reform Have Fallen Short 35
Mere Immortals: Death Has Become a Stranger 49
A Portrait of Death: A Look at Life's End 63
Ars Moriendi: In Search of the "Good Death" 77
II Down a new path
Confronting Death: Addressing Our Fears and Beliefs 95
Talking About Dying: Conversations Bring Understanding and Intimacy 111
Choices in the End: A Look at Medical Issues and Options 127
The Possibilities: Making the Passage Richer 141
Putting Ink to Paper: A Review of Legal Documents 161
Death Manners: Ill at Ease in the Presence of Death 169
The Next Generation: Teaching Our Children About Death 183
III Avoiding common obstacles
The Spiral of Hope: When Hope Is Not Helpful 195
Where Is "There"?: By Waiting, We Often Miss the Boat 213
Taking the Blame: We Are Not the Cause of Death 227
In the Land of Doctors: Navigating the Medical Terrain 233
IV Brilliance in the shadow of death
Ars Vivendi: The Art of Dying Teaches Us the Art of Living 251
Margaret: A Lesson on Living 259
Index 269

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