Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right & Avoiding Who's Wrong

Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right & Avoiding Who's Wrong

by Barbara De Angelis


$16.92 $17.00 Save 0% Current price is $16.92, Original price is $17. You Save 0%.
View All Available Formats & Editions
Eligible for FREE SHIPPING
  • Want it by Wednesday, October 24  Order now and choose Expedited Shipping during checkout.
    Same Day shipping in Manhattan. 
    See Details


Are You the One for Me?: Knowing Who's Right & Avoiding Who's Wrong by Barbara De Angelis

Finally--the book you've been waiting for to help you find and keep the right partner and make  love last. Best-selling author and renowned  relationship expert Barbara De Angelis reveals everything  you need to know about compatibility and shows you  how to create the fulfilling relationship you  deserve whether you are:

Married, and  wondering if you could be happier.

Single, and  wondering how to avoid another wrong partner.

In love, and wondering whether your partner is the  right one for you.

With powerful advice  and groundbreaking techniques that have helped  thousands of people transform their lives, Dr. De  Angelis will show you the formula for creating love  that lasts, and help you to understand yourself and  the one you love as you never have before.

How to avoid making the biggest  mistakes in love.
The six essential qualities  to look for in a mate.
How to spot fatal  flaws in a partner.
How to create the  sexual chemistry you want.
The compatibility  formula to make your relationship work.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780440506706
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Publication date: 05/28/1994
Edition description: Reprint
Pages: 368
Sales rank: 411,296
Product dimensions: 5.30(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Barbara De Angelis, PhD, internationally recognized as one of the foremost experts on human relations and personal growth, is the author of the #1 New York Times blockbusters Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know and Are You the One for Me? Her other bestsellers include Secrets About Life Every Woman Should Know, The Real Rules, Ask Barbara, Real Moments®, Real Moments® for Lovers, and How to Make Love All the Time. She's also a co-author of Chicken Soup for the Couple's Soul. Through her books and award-winning television program and seminars, she has guided millions of people worldwide toward greater personal fulfillment in their relationships and in life.

Read an Excerpt


Excerpted from "Are You the One for Me?"
by .
Copyright © 1994 Barbara De Angelis.
Excerpted by permission of Random House Publishing Group.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

Customer Reviews

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

See All Customer Reviews

Are You the One for Me? 4.7 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 30 reviews.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I came across this book at a very difficult time in my life. I was in the midst of wanting and needing more out of my relationship. For eight years I tried to learn how to enhance my relationship, but, nothing seemed to work. I was not happy; I felt guilty. This book helped me to understand myself and the issues we were experiencing. I left my husband of 13 years and to this day we remain friends. Instead of trying to find fault with him, I learned what it was we were missing and realized we were both really good people, just not good together. I am now in a new relationship and have never been happier. I am buying this book for two of my sisters, and my daughter.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book helped me think a lot more about the relationships I have been involved with and it has helped me figure out any doubts I've had in my current relationship. She offers a lot of answers you can ask your partner and encourages you not to be afraid or feel bad about asking difficult questions. bottom line: what you don't know can hurt you. I highly recommend to single women whether in serious relationship or just dating.
gling on LibraryThing 4 days ago
A must read for every woman who repeatedly chooses the wrong man. My copy has been read by 5 friends who needed it and found it quite enlightening.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The book everyone should read and re-read!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Love it i found my boyfriend in elementry school
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Everything she speaks about makes sense great book she makes you very aware when looking for another to soend your life with !
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Rah_Ethereal More than 1 year ago
I highly recommend this book! I'm a man who has gone through a small handful of hurtful relationships, and found my way to this book through an associate, and have incorporated the philosophies Mrs. De' Angelis teaches into my decision making when it comes to women, and have been able to weed out bad women from good women. Once I get some other things sorted out, I will be on my way to finding Ms. Right. There is no such thing as a perfect person; however, there is a such thing as the right person.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
owlette More than 1 year ago
Enlightning, the book reveals most of what causes problems in relationships down the road. Helps keep one focused on what we should be aware of and what we should avoid.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Guest More than 1 year ago
Going through a separation and divorce has been the absolute worst time in my life. I went to months of counseling and read several books, only to still be lost as to what to do. This was the book that gave me the answers I was looking for. Every other book I read was solely about how to 'make it work,' or how to make your relationship better. This was the only book I found that helped me decide whether I COULD make it work. I discovered all the reasons that I got married in the first place, and all of them were the wrong reasons. I wish I would have read this book ten years ago.
Guest More than 1 year ago
After my 17 year marriage ended, I decided to work on myself. I particpated in counseling and read many books. This was the best. After reading and absorbing this book, I was completely confident that I would recognize the right type of partner for myself if I met him. I was also willing to be without a partner. Because of this knowledge and the confidence I exuded, I attracted a fantastic man. We celebrated our eleventh anniversary recently. The author pays me no commisssions, but I have given this book to at least 10 friends and ordered 2 more today.
Guest More than 1 year ago
My only regret about reading this book was that I did not read it 10 years ago when I was 23!!! I probably would not still be single if I did! I think EVERYONE should read this book! I have friends who have given it to their college-aged kids, and I know that 20 years from now, I will be giving my copy to my kids too! And now, when a boyfriend does come along for me, I want him to read the book too! All I can say is that I went out on 2 'experiment' dates after I read this book, and my approach and response was COMPLETELTY different than my dating had been my whole life. And different for the better!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I first read this book when I was 23. My boyfriend of four years, who I had moved out-of-state with and was my best friend, and I began having compatibility problems even though we still loved each other. Reading this book was a revalation for me. There is a wealth of information inside that every couple should know. The most important is that you can be very much in love, but if you aren't compatible, it will cause more problems than it might be worth. Dr. De Angelis doesn't tell you what to do; rather, she guides you into making a decision that is right for you. Anyone, male or female, whether married or single, in or out of a relationship, should read this book. You can't afford not to.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I read this book shortly after it came out and I saw her on Oprah. I found my husband as a direct result of this book. He fit ALL the qualities that I was looking for (except being my size; he is wonderfully tall!) I trusted the choice even though I didn't feel my usual "jitters" when I was with him. I was oddly comfortable with him. I married him in 1995 and we have two fabulous kids. I marvel daily at my choice--even after 7 years of marriage. If you don't feel this way, BUY THIS BOOK. She will teach you how to make the right choice for you.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Before reading this book I had gone through a series of mental and verbally abusive relashionships, and the last one was the absolute worst. A good friend of mine recommended this book to me and it's changed my life. I learned it wasn't me but the choices of men I was allowing myself to have that were making a misery of my life. I realized I deserved alot better and I don't have to be treated like garbage to have a relashionship. Since reading this book my relashionships now have been wonderful and very healthy.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I am a social worker and a medical writer. I tend to skim through self-help books. I read this one cover-to-cover and did all the exercises. It is fabulous and helped me to understand all the mistakes I've made with men. I feel I have the tools for a successful relationship