Benefit of the Debt: How my husband's porn problem saved our marriage.

When I discovered my husband's secret life, something inside me died.

The grief was overwhelming. Other similarly-injured wives seemed to bounce back relatively quickly, but I was destroyed. I couldn't figure it out.

I begged God to show me what was wrong with me. And He did.

Turns out, the size of your hurt can indicate the size of your self-righteousness.

Instantly, my pain lifted. My mind changed. I've never been the same. You're welcome to read all about what I learned, but first, a few war...