I Came, I Saw, I Coffeed: Online Dating: Why Didn't He Call Me Back? What Goes Through a Man's Mind on the First Meet? Impressions from a Man Who had Over 350 First Meetups.

Have you ever wondered what goes through a man's mind when you first meet?

"Why didn't he call me back? What did he think of me? Did I say the wrong thing?"

I was newly singled after an unwanted divorce and retired early, so I had time on my hands to find a girlfriend. I didn't want to be alone and hadn't dated in years. I was eager to meet a woman and became discouraged trying to find someone to be your love, your best-trusted friend, a confidant, and companion -- a very difficult task.

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