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ISBN-13: | 9781781801840 |
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Publisher: | Hay House Inc. |
Publication date: | 02/13/2015 |
Pages: | 264 |
Product dimensions: | 5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.70(d) |
About the Author
Table of Contents
List of Exercises xiii
Foreword Anita Moorjani xv
Acknowledgements xix
Introduction xxiii
Part I Where Are You Now?
Chapter 1 The Three Stages of Self-Love 3
Stage 1 'I'm Not Enough' 5
Stage 2 'I've Had Enough' 8
Stage 3 'I Am Enough' 14
The Self-Love Gym 15
You're Only Human 16
Chapter 2 Meet the Parents 19
Our Chemical Blend 20
Self-Worth Contagion 21
How We Learn to Question Our Worth 24
Parents 28
It's Not about Blame 32
Trying to Do What's Best 35
Our Responsibility as Parents 37
Chapter 3 How to Use Your Body to Change How You Feel 41
The Four Components of Emotion 42
Fake It and You'll Make It: The Harvard Power Pose 47
How We Function is Affected by How We Hold Our Body. Fact! 51
Stand as Though You're Enough and Wire Your Brain Networks 53
Love Thy Selfie 56
Chapter 4 Visualization 59
The Three Rules of Mental Practice 60
Neuroplasticity 61
Become a Self-Love Olympian 64
'You Can F**k Your Decimals!' 64
Insight to Wired 70
Part II What Does It Matter?
Chapter 5 Does It Matter If People Like You? 75
Cut Yourself a Little Slack 76
Why We Want People to Like Us 78
Why We're Wired to Connect 79
Why We Shouldn't Compromise Our Authenticity 81
'Mirror, Mirror' 86
Chapter 6 Shame 93
Extract the 'I Am' 94
Four Steps to Shame Resilience 97
Shrink It Down 102
We Can Be Enough without Needing to be Perfect 105
Go Out and Connect as Yourself 106
Chapter 7 Body Image 111
Love the Skin You're In 112
Average Joe or GI Joe? 116
Should You Diet? 119
Four Steps to Feeling Better about Your Body Image 121
Chapter 8 Vulnerability 129
The Power of Vulnerability 132
Open Up, Let Your Guard Down and Let the Magic In 135
Getting Some Leverage 137
At Your Own Pace 139
Chapter 9 The Law of Personal Gravity 143
The Law of Personal Repulsion 145
Life Goes On… 148
Part III You Matter
Chapter 10 Self-Compassion 153
An Antidote to Self-Criticism 155
A Buffer When Things Go Wrong 156
Self-Compassion is Healthy 158
Self-Compassion Strategy 1: Swap a Thought 166
Self-Compassion Strategy 2: Do the Loving- Kindness Meditation 167
Self-Compassion Strategy 3: Listen to Your Inner Buddha 170
Self-Compassion Strategy 4: Strike a Compassion Pose 171
Chapter 11 Forgiveness 175
Forgiving Ourselves 175
Forgiving Others 178
Chapter 12 What Are You Doing for Yourself? 181
What Do You Want? What Do You Need? 182
Take Your Life by the Scruff of the Neck 184
Why It's Not Selfish to Look after Your Own Needs 189
Part IV Where Are You Going?
Chapter 13 Step Up and Step Out 195
Feel the Fear 195
Mind the Gap 197
Interact and Be Kind 203
Leave Your Comfort Zone 204
Chapter 14 The Fourth Stage of Self-Love 207
A Fourth Stage? 209
There's Nothing Inside 210
Tuning In 212
Correlations with Physics 214
We're Made of Love 216
The Dove Miracle 218
Endnote: Because You're Worth It 223
Afterword 225
Notes and References 228
About the Author 233