I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

'When Dan died, there was so much I wished I'd known. I'll never know whether knowing any of the things I didn't know, or doing any of the things I didn't do, would have been enough to keep Dan safe in that moment of decision, but if in reading this book my gaps are filled for you, and a difference is made for your children, then that will be more than good enough for me.'

When Daniel Spargo-Mabbs was 16, he went to a party and never came home. The party was an illegal rave and Daniel - a bright, popular, big-hearted prom king - died from a fatally strong overdose of MDMA.

I Wish I'd Known is the book Dan's mother Fiona - co-founder of the leading drug education charity the Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation - wishes she'd had as her intelligent, inquisitive child entered his teenage years. Because however you parent, and whatever you do, your child is very likely to be at some time or other in a situation where they have to make a decision about drugs. What if that decision is 'yes'? Do they know what the risks are? Do they have practical strategies they can bring to bear if things go wrong?

Use of illegal drugs is on the rise among teenagers, and accessing advice and support to help navigate this landscape is critical not just for them, but for you as a parent. I Wish I'd Known explores the risks and effects of the substances young people are most likely to encounter, and the legal pitfalls that may leave their own lasting legacy. It explains the way the adolescent brain makes decisions and manages risk, and gives insight into how to manage important conversations through these often tricky years. There are practical strategies for staying safe, information on reducing harm, and 'talking points' providing ideas for things to do, to talk about, look at, look up or consider.

Throughout the book, Daniel's story - his life, his death, and what happened afterwards - not only provides a compelling reminder of the importance of those conversations, but also serves as a beautiful, unforgettable eulogy to a son, brother, boyfriend and friend whose life continues to touch, and perhaps even save, those of other young people.
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I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

'When Dan died, there was so much I wished I'd known. I'll never know whether knowing any of the things I didn't know, or doing any of the things I didn't do, would have been enough to keep Dan safe in that moment of decision, but if in reading this book my gaps are filled for you, and a difference is made for your children, then that will be more than good enough for me.'

When Daniel Spargo-Mabbs was 16, he went to a party and never came home. The party was an illegal rave and Daniel - a bright, popular, big-hearted prom king - died from a fatally strong overdose of MDMA.

I Wish I'd Known is the book Dan's mother Fiona - co-founder of the leading drug education charity the Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation - wishes she'd had as her intelligent, inquisitive child entered his teenage years. Because however you parent, and whatever you do, your child is very likely to be at some time or other in a situation where they have to make a decision about drugs. What if that decision is 'yes'? Do they know what the risks are? Do they have practical strategies they can bring to bear if things go wrong?

Use of illegal drugs is on the rise among teenagers, and accessing advice and support to help navigate this landscape is critical not just for them, but for you as a parent. I Wish I'd Known explores the risks and effects of the substances young people are most likely to encounter, and the legal pitfalls that may leave their own lasting legacy. It explains the way the adolescent brain makes decisions and manages risk, and gives insight into how to manage important conversations through these often tricky years. There are practical strategies for staying safe, information on reducing harm, and 'talking points' providing ideas for things to do, to talk about, look at, look up or consider.

Throughout the book, Daniel's story - his life, his death, and what happened afterwards - not only provides a compelling reminder of the importance of those conversations, but also serves as a beautiful, unforgettable eulogy to a son, brother, boyfriend and friend whose life continues to touch, and perhaps even save, those of other young people.
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I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

by Fiona Spargo-Mabbs
I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

I Wish I'd Known: Young People, Drugs and Decisions

by Fiona Spargo-Mabbs

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'When Dan died, there was so much I wished I'd known. I'll never know whether knowing any of the things I didn't know, or doing any of the things I didn't do, would have been enough to keep Dan safe in that moment of decision, but if in reading this book my gaps are filled for you, and a difference is made for your children, then that will be more than good enough for me.'

When Daniel Spargo-Mabbs was 16, he went to a party and never came home. The party was an illegal rave and Daniel - a bright, popular, big-hearted prom king - died from a fatally strong overdose of MDMA.

I Wish I'd Known is the book Dan's mother Fiona - co-founder of the leading drug education charity the Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation - wishes she'd had as her intelligent, inquisitive child entered his teenage years. Because however you parent, and whatever you do, your child is very likely to be at some time or other in a situation where they have to make a decision about drugs. What if that decision is 'yes'? Do they know what the risks are? Do they have practical strategies they can bring to bear if things go wrong?

Use of illegal drugs is on the rise among teenagers, and accessing advice and support to help navigate this landscape is critical not just for them, but for you as a parent. I Wish I'd Known explores the risks and effects of the substances young people are most likely to encounter, and the legal pitfalls that may leave their own lasting legacy. It explains the way the adolescent brain makes decisions and manages risk, and gives insight into how to manage important conversations through these often tricky years. There are practical strategies for staying safe, information on reducing harm, and 'talking points' providing ideas for things to do, to talk about, look at, look up or consider.

Throughout the book, Daniel's story - his life, his death, and what happened afterwards - not only provides a compelling reminder of the importance of those conversations, but also serves as a beautiful, unforgettable eulogy to a son, brother, boyfriend and friend whose life continues to touch, and perhaps even save, those of other young people.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781529366365
Publisher: Mobius
Publication date: 09/28/2021
Pages: 224
Product dimensions: 6.00(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.00(d)

About the Author

Fiona Spargo-Mabbs was a manager in adult education,
including Family Learning,
and family literacy,
for her local authority when her son Dan died. She is now considered one of the leading experts in drugs education in the UK,
whose influence is growing steadily. She,
and the Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation,
are involved in an ever increasing number of strategic projects nationally,
and she has appeared in the media many times over the years. Fiona has led on the development and management of the work of the Foundation,
from delivery to students and co-ordination with schools,
to networking and strategy,
and chaired the Board of Trustees until April 2016. Her passionate commitment to do all she can to prevent what happened to her son,
or any other harm from drugs happening to anyone else,
drives everything she does within the Foundation.

Table of Contents

About the Author x

Foreword xii

Introduction xiv

1 I wish I'd known what I needed to know: starting the story, setting the scene 1

2 I wish I'd known what drugs can do: effects and risks 21

3 I wish I'd known how complicated risk is: drug, person, place 53

4 I wish I'd known about the teenage brain: choices, friends and managing risk 79

5 I wish I'd known the legal fallout: drugs, alcohol and the law 104

6 I wish I'd known how to talk about it better: conversations about drugs 137

7 I wish I'd known how to make things safer: harm reduction and staying safe 164

8 I wish I'd known he'd tried drugs: what to do if you have concerns 194

9 I wish I didn't know what it's like to lose a child to drugs: the impact 227

I Wish I'd Known - a final word from Dan's Dad 257

About the Daniel Spargo-Mabbs Foundation 259

Further Resources 263

Index 273

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