Learning to Be Assertive Learning to Say No Raising Assertive Children

The dictionary defines assertiveness as, "confidently self-assured" a fairly good description of what most of us hope to be, confident and self-assured.
The question always becomes am I assertive? Am I too assertive? Am I assertive to the point of being aggressive? No one wants to be known as aggressive just as they do not want to be known as a push over. The goal is
to find that fine line in between too much and too little assertiveness.
Balance if you will, so that you know when to let go or...