The Compatibility Analyzer

by Zalman Puchkoff

Overview

We all want a relationship with someone who matches our expectations of our ideal mate. We all have our list which we’ve been carrying around for so long we know it by heart. You know the words, “I’m looking for someone who…”, or, I need somebody who…” You fill in the blanks.

In matching our needs with the qualities we see in another person, we identify traits based upon our expectations for a successful relationship, which may be unrealistic, self-indulgent, or well-founded.

Many of us don’t know or can’t express what we really need in order to have a successful relationship, but we certainly know when we’re not getting what we need when a relationship doesn’t seem to get off the ground or when once started, begins to fall apart.

The Compatibility Analyzer lets you see, at a glance when your expectations are mismatched with the personality attributes you see in another person that you are in a relationship with or, you are dating.

If the expected qualities that you’re looking for can be closely matched with the qualities in another person, there is a greater chance to build that relationship into a lasting one. For example, if you need someone who is spontaneous and the person you’re seeing is predictable, then you will show a mismatch in what you need with the reality of who this person is, and you will show a diagonal line drawn across the form, while a parallel line drawn across will show you a match. You will also be shown the meaning of each of the seven connections across the page on the form.

Focus will be on defined qualities as they relate to ones needs, as opposed to one’s wants, with the purpose of creating this distinction for you to use as a guide in determining if a particular relationship issue is indeed considered a need, as sustenance, or a want – as a wish fulfillment.

Go ahead, take the test! Find out if you’re wasting your time or if you’ve found a real keeper!

Product Details

BN ID:	2940044303492
Publisher:	Zalman Puchkoff
Publication date:	01/11/2013
Sold by:	Smashwords
Format:	eBook
File size:	172 KB
Age Range:	18 Years

About the Author

I grew up in Brooklyn, NY and entered a family business and worked in it for over 55 years before I retired. I'm a businessman, a software designer, a professional magician, and an after-school tutor.

I always liked to teach and found myself as an after-school tutor for the board of education in Manhattan where I then lived. My wife Janet and I moved to Salem, SC and I again found myself teaching 3rd graders how to read as a volunteer in the Blue Ridge elementary school in Seneca.

My first book published for Smashwords, Decisions 1.1 deals with people’s expectations about themselves, their desires, and belief systems, and how their brain works to protect itself, rather than to help its user. I like sharing what I learned over the years to help people make decisions that work for them and improve their daily life.

Over the years I've been able to internalize the tools of my own trade and wish to share them with you so that when you are confronted with obstacles or forks in the road, you'll know which communication tools to use to move ahead and reach your goals.

I have other books on the drawing board that will soon be available such as; Through Supplier and Consumer Eyes – your view determines your life; How to Find a Keeper – Reasons or results, what’s it going to be?; Break That Habit!; Yes You Can!
I welcome receiving your comments, testimonials, and criticisms after you have read my books.

I am also available for consulting services on the subjects discussed in my book. If you need a lecturer for your group or for consultation on personal and business issues, please contact me at [e-mail].