The Compatibility Analyzer

We all want a relationship with someone who matches our expectations of our ideal mate. We all have our list which we’ve been carrying around for so long we know it by heart. You know the words, “I’m looking for someone who…”, or, I need somebody who…” You fill in the blanks.

In matching our needs with the qualities we see in another person, we identify traits based upon our expectations for a successful relationship, which may be unrealistic, self-indulgent, or well-founded.

Many of us don’t...