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The Offline Dating Method: How to Attract a Great Guy in the Real World
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The Offline Dating Method is your step-by-step guide to finding Mr. Right.
From sexual harassment and body image shaming to lies about age, looks, and relationship status, dating in the digital world can make a single woman's search for love feel anything from unenjoyable to completely traumatizing. Enter the antidote to online dating burnout and dating app fatigue: The Offline Dating Method.
With the dating industry oversaturated by online profile writers and ineffective matchmakers, this book offers single women a refreshingly simple yet powerful approach to ditching the apps and magnetically attracting Mr. Right in the real world. Author Camille Virginia shares how the rollercoaster of her own romantic experiences developed into her mission to attract only the right men into her life. The result is a nine-step personal roadmap that helps you discover exactly where you're getting stuck in the dating process and how to move past it quickly and find the love you deserve; without having to brave the savage world of online dating and apps ever again.
With The Offline Dating Method , you will follow a proven, step-by-step system (no guesswork of what to do next) and discover where you're stuck. Then, you just turn to that page for the solution. Virginia gives you authentic, actionable tips (there's no vague just be yourself! advice) so you can create meaningful connections with everyone (men, friends, family, and more) in your life. Welcome to the quintessential book on dating: The Offline Dating Method is your step-by-step guide to finding Mr. Right.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781948787925 |
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Publisher: | Lifestyle Entrepreneurs Press |
Publication date: | 09/17/2019 |
Pages: | 265 |
Sales rank: | 644,170 |
Product dimensions: | 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d) |
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Read an Excerpt
Go for Depth, Not Breadth
The fastest way to turn a conversation into an interview is by constantly switching topics, which prevents going deeper into any one of them.
For example, I had a dinner date with a man who played a not-so-fun game of 20 Questions. It was almost as if he had a set of “Completely Unrelated Questions to Ask on a Date” and was simply going down the list. He would ask one and I would answer, but when I tried to ask it back to him, he was already onto the next random question which had nothing to do with the previous one. We ran out of things to talk about in about ten minutes and our food hadn’t even arrived yet. On the flip side, if we had gone deeper on any one of those questions, we could have talked about it for hours.
So instead of jumping around, find a topic you’re genuinely interested in and ask insightful questions about it until it naturally segues to another interesting topic. To go deeper on a specific topic, ask questions related to how someone thinks or feels, or the “why” behind what they did.
Examples of feeling, thinking, and “why” questions:
• “How do you feel about that?”
• “Why did you do that?”
• “What made you say that?”
• “What was running through your head?”
• “Tell me more!”
As you go deeper, be prepared to find out fascinating things you never knew or could have guessed about the other person. Heck, they’ll find out fascinating things about themselves they never knew, because they haven’t been asking themselves thought-provoking questions like that.
Table of Contents
Introduction: Your Secret Edge Over the Apps 1
Chapter I Magnetic Approachability 13
Master the art of approachability to attract a great man - without saying a word
Results You'll Get From This Chapter 16
The Irresistible Woman: Authentic, Alluring, Approachable 17
Location is Everything 18
Simple Social Warm-Ups 20
The #1 Principle of Approachability 24
Seven Ways to Snap Into the Present 25
Three Pillars of Magnetic Approachability 28
Pillar 1 Prepping 29
Pillar 2 Positioning 39
Pillar 3 Projecting 43
Chapter II Effortless Engagement 55
Discover how to talk to any man with zero risk of rejection (even if you're shy)
Results You'll Get From This Chapter 60
Consistency 101: Your Shift into Effortless Engagement 65
If He Initiates With You 77
The Rules of Engagement 77
If You Initiate With Him 87
The Rules of Engagement 87
Overcoming the Four Fears 92
Eleven Super Simple Ways to Start a Conversation 99
How to Keep it Going - Or Shut It Down 106
The Four-Word Transition to Meaningful 106
Death of a Conversation 107
Essential Engagement Extras 109
Four Ways to Never Forget Someone's Name Again 109
Nine Actions to Gain Social Momentum 112
How to Handle "One of Those Days" 119
Chapter III Asked Out Organically 121
Create instantly meaningful connections and inspire a great guy to ask you out
Results You'll Get From This Chapter 125
Warning! You'll Be a Wanted Woman 135
How to Avoid The Catch-Up Cycle of Doom 136
All Praise and No Action Makes Anyone a Dull Boy (or Girl) 139
The Five Elements of a Meaningful Conversation 140
Element 1 Ask Awesome Questions 142
Element 2 Hold Space for Silence 150
Element 3 Listen Like Your Life Depends Upon It 152
Element 4 Release Judgment 169
Element 5 Share Insights and Stories 182
How to Seal the Deal 199
Here's Why It Needs to Be an Actual Date 199
Three Ways to Get a Date with Him 200
Script: How I Got a Date on LinkedIn 206
More Tips for Your Conversational Arsenal 208
Don't Say This to Him, or Anyone. Ever 208
How to Know When to Exit the Conversation 212
Opportunities > Outcomes 214
Four Ways to Recover From Forgetting a Name 216
Instant Charm Hacks 218
Ménage à Meaningful 220
Tech, Interrupted 221
Conclusion: The World is Now Your Dating Playground 223
Coaching: How to Upgrade Your Support 225
Next Books: The Sequel and The Prequel 227
Acknowledgments: A Few Special Thank-You's 233
Guide: All Book Sections by Page Number 237
Index 245
What People are Saying About This
"Camille is the master coach for women who are trying to meet men offline - She's a social skills ninja!" - Jason Silver, Founder of We Just Match